(Closed) coffee after dinner?

posted 7 years ago in Food
Post # 3
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Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

I would miss not having coffee.

Post # 4
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: November 2013

I enjoy coffee with dessert, but I don’t know if I’d notice if it was never served.

Plus, if I’m not driving and therefore am drinking, I never drink the coffee.  I just keep refilling my wine glass 😉

Sorry, don’t know if that helps.  I have a feeling only the older people in the crowd might notice there’s not coffee or tea.

Post # 5
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: October 2010

I enjoyed having coffee with my cake..but then again, I am a big coffee drinker.

I think most people had coffee with the pastries too. But really, I don’t recall having coffee at many weddings I’ve been too..so probably wouldn’t be missed too much.

Post # 6
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: September 2009

we had coffee served at ours, but that’s just because the caterer threw it in as part of the package.  Neither my husband and I are coffee drinkers so we wouldn’t have even thought serving coffee if the caterer hadn’t mentioned it.  I don’t think many guests will notice if it’s there or not!

Post # 7
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

Of all the weddings I’ve been to I don’t ever remember having coffee or tea and honestly didn’t miss it.

Post # 8
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2011

most people wouldn’t notice… when i see a delicious piece of cake don’t think well now where is the coffee?  If it was there i would drink it but i dont think its necessary.

Post # 10
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2010

I think people would miss the coffee and tea.  Me personally… no, but most of my family drinks coffee or tea with dessert.

Post # 11
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: March 2012

I would definitely miss the coffee. I’m a coffee drinker and at an event I always am looking for the coffee to be served with dessert. I would be disappointed without it.

Post # 13
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Bumble Beekeeper

Daughter’s wedding was in August-but I don’t think that made a real difference.  We had wine-and that went over, the coffee & tea didn’t -it was a waste.  and we have some big coffee (and wine) drinkers in the family.  I vote for save your money! 🙂

Post # 14
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2011

I’ve been to receptions that had coffee bars and I LOVED it (I’m a coffee-fan). However, I probably wouldn’t think twice if I were at a wedding and it didn’t have coffee or tea.

Post # 15
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: August 2010

I think it depends on your crowd? Do you typically serve coffee with desserts at family get together and/or when friends come over?

We always do so unless it was significant we wouldn’t have cut it. For the drivers it would help them sober up a tad as well after a night of drinking. In April in Chicago the warmth might be nice as well before guests head out. What time does your reception end as well? A lot of the older guests might need the coffee later at night.

Post # 16
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

FI and I are big coffee buffs, so I would notice its absence, but wouldn’t care. 

But …. how late of an event are you having?  If you don’t expect guests to leave until late, then coffee might be a pick-me-up to get guests home without falling asleep after hours of dancing/drinking.  Or, you could just set-up a grab-bar of 5-hour energy shots. 

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