Post # 1
I’m not sure I understand this. My fi told me today that she would not want me getting her and her friend (my friends wife) coffee if I dropped them both off at a hair appt. She would only want me to get her coffee. Personally I think this is very rude so I’m trying to understand what is going on here. She asked if my friend (the husband) would get them both coffee, which he would, and she says then he owes her coffee too then. Did I miss something? Is this a bad sign?
Post # 3
Don’t take this the wrong way, but she sounds selfish and insecure.
I read your other posts and it’s just the feeling I’m getting.
My SO would always bring coffee or lunch to my friends and I, pick up tabs at restaurants etc.
I wanted someone generous and thoughtful.
You sound generous and thoughtful and I’m afraid she’s wasting it.
Post # 4
When I went on vacation with my guy to meet his family for the first time, he arranged my long time friend to surprise me there! I hadn’t seen her in 3 years. He treated us both to lunch, which was very kind of him to do.
I would still get the coffee for your FI and her friend. It’s the generous and respectful thing to do. You’re a gentleman, even if someone doesn’t want you to behave that way.
Like the PP said, it’s too bad she’s wasting it. Many women would kill to have such a thoughtful person in their life!
Post # 6
nobody OWES her coffee, and the nice thing to do is to get them both coffee. This person *refrains from snarky comment*