(Closed) Coffee for one when there's two?

posted 6 years ago in Cooking
Post # 3
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2009 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: November 1999

Don’t take this the wrong way, but she sounds selfish and insecure.

I read your other posts and it’s just the feeling I’m getting.

My SO would always bring coffee or lunch to my friends and I, pick up tabs at restaurants etc.

I wanted someone generous and thoughtful.

You sound generous and thoughtful and I’m afraid she’s wasting it.

Post # 4
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2523 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: December 2012

When I went on vacation with my guy to meet his family for the first time, he arranged my long time friend to surprise me there! I hadn’t seen her in 3 years. He treated us both to lunch, which was very kind of him to do.

I would still get the coffee for your FI and her friend. It’s the generous and respectful thing to do. You’re a gentleman, even if someone doesn’t want you to behave that way.

Like the PP said, it’s too bad she’s wasting it. Many women would kill to have such a thoughtful person in their life!

Post # 5
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1246 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2013

I agree with the above!

Post # 6
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3357 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

wait what?!

nobody OWES her coffee, and the nice thing to do is to get them both coffee. This person *refrains from snarky comment*

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