- 7 years ago
- Wedding: August 2010
okay im supposed to be getting married in a few months from now but have been having cold feet. I have been thinking about my relationship. Me and my FI get along well but there is a lack of intimacy in our relationship. As a student I have always been busy and thought that the reason for our lack of intimacy was due to me being busy. Until recently i got some attention from someone else and thought to myself that I could be attracted to someone else. This is just horrible. Me and my FI havent had sex in months.. i would say 3-5 times the entire year and we were living in the same place. Should I be marrying this guy. We have been together for 6 years and he is a great guy, treats me well, but i just wonder if this is the way it is or if i just dont have that “spark” for him. I do care deeply for him but i wonder if the grass is greener on the other side.. i feel horrible for thinking this way but i just dont know.. and im getting scared that our sex life wont recover. It is definitely me.. as he tries it on with me and i push him away. dunno if i have lost that physical attraction.. i may have.. Any suggestions? Help needed!