Post # 1
i just had my bachelorette party and am getting married in 2 months. i thought i was 100% sure, and after how much fun I had this past weekend, im not so sure about getting married anymore. it’s been bothering me constantly. has anyone ever gotten this bad of a case of cold feet before? will it pass???
Post # 3
No, I haven’t. Is there specific things you’re worried about? For example, personality conflicts, children, etc?
Post # 4
- Wedding: July 2012 - The Gables Inn, Santa Rosa, CA
Better, worse, or different– you’re certainly not the only woman who has ever had cold feet, and it doesn’t necessarily mean you’re making the wrong choice.
The important thing is to analyze your feelings. What is making you feel this way; from the sounds of it’s it’s less to do with you Fiance and more to do with you– are you afraid you’re going to lose some part of your identity in marrying him? Or that you’ll lose some of the freedom to spend time with your friends? Were there things that happened at your party that you feel like you wont be able to do once you’re married?
All of these feelings are normal, and you have to analyze them to understand the motives behind them. Are you nervous of the unknown, or are you worried about what you’re leaving behind?