- 2 years ago
So my fiancé and I have been together since 2009. We got engaged in October of 2013 and our wedding date is august 29. We are in the process of getting a house and our closing date is soon. He has been really excited about everything. He has been counting down with me and planning. Out the layout for his man cave. Yesterday he told me that he is starting to feel really nervous about getting married. Naturally, I’m nervous too but we handle stress very differently. I tend to just tackle life head on and deal with things as they come. He on the other hand does this every single summer where he freaks out about something. He doesn’t handle change very well. Now it has completely knocked me out of wedding mode. I don’t want to buy anything else or really do anything because I. Feel like idk what will happen next. I don’t think he will back out of our engagement but in the past year i have seen a family member of his leave someone at the alter and my best friend got dumped by her fiancé so the everything will be fine line doesn’t really comfort me. Have any of you other bees gone through this? I just want us to be happy but now I’m nervous. Advice?