(Closed) coming to terms w/ my totally trendy wedding!

posted 7 years ago in Themes
Post # 3
7695 posts
Bumble Beekeeper

It sounds very nice!  Do what is right for you, you will find ways to personalize it , I am sure! 🙂

Post # 4
46236 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

Run with it! Brides tend to foget that 95% of their guests have seen or even heard of these ideas because they don’t frequent the wedding blogs.

Post # 5
237 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2011

@julies1949: Thats so true, to us we think its soo over done. But to our guest its brand new.

Post # 6
1371 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2010

I agree with the above, many of these things are trends in online blogs, but a lot of them I have not seen at recent weddings I have been to despite this.  Here are the things I did that you’re doing:

outdoor ceremony, first look, alternative Groomsmen bouts, non identical Bridesmaid or Best Man dresses, bundt cakes instead of wedding cake (we did a cake table with many cakes), photobooth, lawn games.  The only one I had seen at a wedding I attended before and since was outdoor ceremony.

I also went to a wedding with chalkboards and mustaches/props for pictures.  It was a MASSIVE hit and no one (except me) had ever seen it before.

Post # 7
207 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2011 - Calgary Opera Centre

Unless you’re inviting exclusively Bees and bloggers, it won’t seem “trendy” to your guests. And I would love to be invited to a wedding with all those things!

Post # 8
6256 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: March 2014

Go for it. Anyone who wants to judge you can just stay home 😀

Post # 9
39 posts

When I first got engaged my fiance and I decided to hold the wedding in a family member’s beautiful backyard. We did it for sentimental as well as financial reasons. While browsing through a bridal magazine I saw that it was on a list of trendy ways to have a wedding this year…. ugh. I hate trendy.


But I agree with everyone else, all of the things you listed sound great and will put a unique and personal touch on your wedding. I think most guests get tired of cookie cutter weddings and look forward to new ways to do old traditions.

Post # 10
683 posts
Busy bee

The majority of your guest don’t stalk the wedding blagoshere. They will simply be blown away by your “creativity.”

Post # 11
1668 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: March 2012

You know, my sister married in 1996 and had non-matching bridesmaids dresses.  Perhaps she was ahead of her time, ya never know what trends end up sticking around for a bit.

Post # 12
359 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: August 2011

I totally agree with everyone else. We see these things as common and super trendy because we read wedding blogs and stuff. I think the average person doesn’t really think about this sort of thing.

Having said that, I have been trying to steer away from “trendy” things myself. Its hard though, because there are so many great ideas out there. I AM including a few trendy things, but I just love them too much not to.

We’re doing multiple cakes, outdoor ceremony (and reception), lawn games, and DIY as much as possible. We may also include pompoms, garlands and a cookie buffet.

Post # 13
1270 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: April 2011

psh. i jumped on the peacock bandwagon. big regret now, but heck. nothing i can do about it now.

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