I belong to a work related forum and on the off topic section of the forum, once a day there is a "confession" post...sometimes people post anonymously, others use their moniker.
Do you all do that here on Weddingbee ever?....Often times it's the most veiwed post.
I'll start:
I confess...
1. that I really want to put every item of my wedding ensamble on, down to the make up, hair and shoes to see if my vision is accurate....and I have no idea why I haven't just actually done it yet.
2. In the next few weeks my boss is retiring and I have no idea what to expect regarding his replacement. This scares the bejesus out of me.
3. I'm worried that my FI's brothers (groomsmen) are going to get ridiculously hammered BEFORE the ceremony.
'tis all for now....care to confess?
I confess that every once in a while I really wish I had a prescription for Xanax because this wedding planning gives me such anxiety!
I am terrified my fiancee wont love me in my wedding dress.
I confess that when I cleaned up my Facebook friend list I left a few people on there simply because their lives are such train wrecks that if I didn't read their posts I would get bored with Facebook.
I confess that I get judgy when I see posts about cash bars, bridesmaid drama when the wedding isn't for another 2 years, or any emotional breakdown level drama over small details like flowers or table linens. I usually choose not to comment, but I sometimes read it for entertainment value. Shame on me.
FSIL got engaged in December, wedding in the beginning of May. I'm afraid she will outshine me because she's a size 4 and wearing a very ornate and detailed dress. This bugs me more because it's her 3rd wedding, and it wasn't supposed to be more than a simple JP at the house type affair. Now it's turning into a bigger deal, and I'm trying hard to not worry that my thunder will be stolen. I fear people will forget how I looked the second they see her, and that I'll be hearing about her dress for years to come.
*sigh* it's all terribly irrational, and I will now resume my normal level of confidence.
good thread :)
@DaneLady: I'm so glad I'm not the only one that keeps the trainwrecks for entertainment purposes.
I confess that while I'm super happy for my friend getting married this summer in a DW...I am slightly annoyed at having to shell out $2K for my husband and I to attend. Ok, I know we don't HAVE to and I'm incredibly happy that I'll be able to be there to celebrate with her...but you couldn't have picked somewhere other than the $450/night resort?? I will be stuffing my face and drinking everything in sight to get my money's worth.
I was never 100% certain I wanted to marry my ex-FI, even from the first day of our engagement and despite almost 5 years of dating and 6 years of friendship.
I am 99.9% certain I want to marry my SO. We met in October 2012.
It scares the shit out of me.
I confess that I'm jealous that DH's friend is going to have a nicer wedding than ours.
I confess I'm worried about my wedding not being special or unique (my good friend is getting married two weeks before us and seems to have chosen a similar theme, and my cousin is getting married a week before us...). I'm worried I'll stress out about how close our weddings are, even though in reality we won't share that many guests, and we're different people so of course they'll be different.
I confess that I'm constantly afraid that we will get divorced 10 years from now, even though we love each other and have a good relationsihp. My parents are divorced and Ever since I met him and actually wanted to marry someone, it has plagued me. There are times when I think about it daily.
I confess that I'm a closet bitch, sometimes not so closet.
I confess I also think that my closet bitchiness is hilarious at the same time.
I confess I'm worried I'll mess the wedding up somehow ( food will end up poorly, guests will be bored, I'll mess up the ceremony ... On and on). And as a previous poster said... I wish I was on Xanax right now lol.
@misspeanut: Make that three for trainwreck watching!
I confess that I can't eat gluten as it makes me sick, but since I have no plans outside the house this weekend I broke down and got some delicious gluteny cinnamon buns. Worth it!!
I confess that even though i'm madly in love with my husband and don't doubt our relationship for a second, I'm terrified that our age difference will be a problem in the next 20, 30, 40 years.
I also confess that I'm having a really hard time being excited for my sister. She is having a baby in May, her third, and my husband and I have been ttc for over a year with no luck.
I confess that these last 3 days at work I have literally done almost no work and have been wedding planning instead. Yikes! Hopefully I get it all out of my system this weekend so I can be a good little worker bee again starting next week!
@Pinkmoon: I saw a gluten free cinnamon bun recipe on pinterest the other day. let me find it (i sent it to a g-free friend)...........http://kimberlybither.com/gluten-free-hot-cinnamon-rolls-from-bobs-red-mill/
@DaneLady: I DO THIS TOO! It's so bad, but it's so good to see that your life is not as bad as others.
I confess that I'm scared that once I have my baby I won't want to return to work. Normally, I'd be okay with this-but I moved my DH from the east coast to the midwest FOR MY JOB this past July. He just got a job this week! I feel like if I become a SAHM later on this year-this whole move would be worthless.
I confess that I really hope that my FBIL takes off with his "girlfriend" (long LONG story) and doesnt come to the wedding.
I confess that I want to kick FMIL in the face for putting her .02 cents into EVERYTHING.
And I confess that I am a TOTAL closet bitch. I'm with you @MsJ2theZ!
I confess that I'm going to look like a fool trying to dance at the wedding and won't enjoy it over stressing how stupid I look.
And I totally keep some people as FB friends just to watch their drama. Love it. hahah
@PinkAndPearls2013: Thanks!! I'll have to try it. The recipe I have for normal cinnamon buns just doesn't convert well as gluten free.
I confess that I hate my job. I work for a very small family owned company. I was supposed to be given a promotion to a tech but the Manager is a total jerk and that got taken away. I want a new job but no one is hiring.
I confess..........
1. The size of the ring matters to me. I have fat fingers and I don't want the ring to look stupid on my man hands.
2. I'm scared I will never lose weight
3. I'm at work, have been for the past 7 hours and I haven't accomplished anything!
4. I wear jeans at least twice before I wash them
I confess that I hate my job. I work for a very small family owned company. I was supposed to be given a promotion to a tech but the Manager is a total jerk and that got taken away. I want a new job but no one is hiring.
I confess that when I see RSVPs in my mailbox I secretly hope they are declines so I can save money. I also confess that even though I am smack in the middle of busy season at work, I have literally stared at one spreadsheet all day long. Oops.
I confess that even though I am a normal sized bride that I won't lose enough weight before dress fittings/wedding
I confess that I am also worried about the same thing with my FI
I shamefully confess that I hope that my two best friends who aren't engaged (yet) don't get bigger engagments rings than me
I confess that I am a little shallow and I'm okay with that ;)
I confess that I'm worried my close cousin's large, carnival style wedding will be better than my intimate restaurant wedding, since her FIL have money and are helping pay for the cost, while FI and I are paying for ours almost all on our own.
I confess I'm scared to death I will look horrible in our wedding photos.
I confess I'm worried I won't lose enough weight to actually look good in my dress.
I confess I'm worried people won't say things like "oh you two look so in love" or "you can see how much you love each other" because I have a hard time with PDA.
I confess that I'm not really sure if my FI is truly in love with me... : (
@misspeanut: I say eat & drink away!! If I end up planning a whole DW instead of just a tiny ceremony, I will make sure there is enough food & drinks for everyone to feel it was worth the trip!
@Nona99: this is awesome.
I confess that I really want my SO to propose this summer even though we have both agreed to no earlier than December.
I confess that I'm afraid my family won't want to come to the wedding because it's 2 girls getting married & even though they all act very supportive, marriage might be too much for them.
I confess that I have a second facebook account just to see ex friends & roommates that I have previously deleted & blocked!
I confess that I have been rather overreacting about a friend using some of my wedding ideas and is actively trying to get married before me. It's a long story, but we've known each other for 15 years and she's made everything in our lives a competition. I've always tried to just ignore it and let life happen. Secretly it annoys me because I've been engaged for such a long time and I've put a lot of work into all the little details whereas she's been engaged for a month. Irrational? Probably, but I'm usually very logical and very rarely do I get upset about things like this.
I also keep some people on my Facebook just because they are trainwrecks.
I'm afraid that no one will come to my wedding or that it will be boring because there's no alcohol or dancing. FH and I don't have many friends at all, and I'm having a small wedding simply because I can't think of more than a few people to invite.
I confess that I'm afraid I'll be a fat bride but am finding it hard to be motivated :(
I confess I was so sore tonight I pretended to do my yoga workout, but all I did was turn on the video and lay on the floor.
I Confess...
1. that I worry about me and my FI's age difference. I am terrified of what this would mean for us as a couple sexually as well as our time together on this earth.
2. that until recently, I was 100% satisfied with my engagement ring, but now my teeny tiny diamond makes me incredibly sad.
@MissStumptown: My FI has issues with PDA, and because of this, I worry about the exact same thing.
@Nurse_Bee: I had the same problem... 4 weeks ago, but I ended up clothing shopping...realized I looked hideous in ALL of the dresses and decided at that moment to WORKOUT and EAT RIGHT! It's hard, but it will be worth it. Looking at other people's weightloss pictures is also helpful!
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