Confessions of a Serial Cheater

posted 3 years ago in Relationships
Post # 3
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: February 2014

omg. my heart. i hate this : (

Post # 4
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: March 2015

@canarydiamond:  This is disgusting. I hate when people try to justify their cheating. And really, “respectful infidelity”? It’s fine if you choose to sleep around when you’re single but when you’re doing so while in a committed relationship, you’re trying to have your cake and eat it too and that’s ultimately the most selfish thing.

Post # 6
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: June 2014

Wow……this is really sad. I really do not understand how people say, I love my wife or husband yet they cheat. I thought if you really loved someone you would not want to cause them the pain of cheating. 

Maybe I’ll never get it. I’ve only been cheated on, I never did the cheating. 

And honestly if he is doing it as much as he says, she knows. Ugh. 

Post # 7
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

this is horrible….

what’s also annoying is him saying “now that i’ve been engaged, now that i’m getting married”…really? your martial status will change your URGE to be fulfilled by something more exciting an new? give me a break.

Post # 8
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: July 2014 - Prague

I think the whole thing is made up. It’s SO badly written. Just a button-pusher article, possibly.

Post # 9
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: April 2013

This guy sounds like the ultimate douche! There is no thing as respectful infidelity, like really he doing his fi a favor by not spending the night. Umm no he doing himself a favor so he doesn’t have to come up with an excuse for why he wasn’t sleeping at home!

 

He is full of shit, there no way to be cheating on someone without lying about where you are and what you are doing. He not only lying to his Fi he is lying to himself.

 

Post # 10
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: January 2014

What a douchebag. Go find someone who wants an open marriage – these women do exist. Don’t promise monogamy to someone who wants it when you clearly can’t keep it in your pants.

Post # 11
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2014

I knew a guy like this in real life, he cheated on his girlfriends non-stop, when he proposed to his now wife, he said he was going to stop but never did.  They’ve been married for a few years now, have two kids and he continues to cheat on her.  I found it so horrible that I decided I couldn’t be friends with him anymore and just cut all ties.  

I honestly think if this is someone’s mentality that they need to find a partner who would want an open marriage or would be into swinging but to marry someone who believes in being monogamous when you don’t is just a horrible thing to do. 

Post # 12
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2014

I know people who are in open marriages and it’s something they decided on together and that’s their thing and it works for them and that’s fine, but this guy seems like such a skeeze. And I couldn’t help but wonder if he wrote it under a pseudonym or he’s just planning on outing himself to his future wife this way, like “Hey, btw, I wrote this article about how I’ve been cheating on you this whole time”

Post # 13
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: April 2013

@bowsergirl:  I know right. But I doubt he wants his partner out sleeping around as well. He wants his freedom but probably wants his wife locked down and being faithful and having sex only with him. What an ass!

Post # 14
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Newbee
  • Wedding: May 2014

As someone in a committed, but sexually open relationship, I actually understand his feelings about the “newness” that drives him to cheat.  The difference in my relationship is that we are completely open with each other about the things we do with others and we have guidelines that protect and keep our relationship special.  It is the lying involved with the infidelity that bothers me – it speaks to a much bigger relationship issue.  If he discussed his desires at the onset of their relationship, like my FI and I did, he may be able to have both without the lying and guilt.

Post # 15
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2014 - Turf Valley

@mu_t:  This. That poor woman who, I assume, has NO idea… Blah.

Post # 16
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Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

I know many men and women like this. 

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