- 7 years ago
- Wedding: May 2012
I need to vent. Like whoa.
One of my bridesmaids, who is a close friend of mine (we were roomies in college and actually work in the same office), is currently dating my FI’s best man, aka his best friend who he’s known since he was 5.
We are not happy with the set up. They both have some serious issues (not worth getting into), we’ve made our opinions known about it, but recognize that they are both adults and can do what they please.
The problem is… my Bridesmaid or Best Man is now telling me everything about him. I mean. e-v-e-r-y-t-h-i-n-g. Like I get it, we’re close friends, we talk about this stuff. But I mean come on, this is FI’s best man.. it’s not just another boyfriend. I know him as FI’s best man, not as bridesmaid’s boyfriend. I just feel really uncomfortable knowing these things about FI’s best buddy and wish she would just stop. This is a serious conflict of interest.
It’s almost like having your older brother’s girlfriend tell you your brother’s most personal, intimate details. I feel gross about it and I feel like I’m invading on his life… Knowing things about him that I shouldn’t.
Ugh. I’m sorry I’m rambling, but she just divulged MORE private info on him, and I just need to get it off my chest.