- 5 years ago
- Wedding: September 2013
Hi my name is Anna. I am 25 years old and have been enaged for five years now. I am finally ready to to take the next step and get married. So I told my mom that I wanted to get married this year and she was like Oh My God to Branden? ( Branden is my fiance ) I responded to her by saying yes. Then she was like are you sure and I said if I wasnt sure I would’t be with him. then she told me that I had time and I should think about it. Branden has never done anything wrong to my mom or my family. I have never heard her say anything wrong about him. I think the problem is that his parents got divorce last year and his father and his girlfriend got into a fight with Branden and I and it got ugly. But everything is fine between all of us now. My mom got upset at the problem and she now thinks his whole family is a bunch of crazy people. everytime I say anything about his family she looks at me and says look at what you are going to be marring into. I dont know what to do cuz I want to please everyone but at the same time its my life. I think she is acting this way because my fathers family didnt treat her well. They never liked her and could care less about what she had to say. So I need help and advice on what to do.I want my mom to be happy for me and I dont want her to make things stressful for me. so please help!!!!