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    girlbrat89    June 20, 2010   Minnesota

    My wedding is june 2010 I have found out quickly that I fall in love the tons of diffrent stuff but when i try to put it together is turns out to look very..how do you say....TACKY...!!

    My Brides maids dresses are aqua tea length

    http://www.amazon.com/Strapless-Satin-Formal-Bridesmaid-Holiday/dp/B00144L3Q6/ref=sr_1_6?ie=UTF8&s=apparel&qid=1267463937&sr=8-6

    My dress is soft white/cream Davids Bridal Style: VC9833

    Could use help with guys shirt color/tie color. I wanted it the same color as the dress but the best man informed me he hated it! my dress is soft white would it be ok if the groomsmens shirt was white?

    What flowers should I use? I was thining hydrangeas in white.My mother said it would clash with my dress. 

    What color shoes should the girls wear?MOH found black ones she really wanted to wear.

    Jewlery? I was leaning toward vintage pearls?

    Help !!Cry

     
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    buffy    May 14, 2011   Los Angeles

    I don't think the best man has to like it.  ;)

    I think you should relax and do what you think looks great.  I think the pearls will be gorgeous with that dress,

     
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    2PeasinaPod       Philadelphia

    I agree! It's your wedding, and it doesn't matter what the best man likes! If you're still worried, silver may look nice with everything. The girls in a silver shoe would look nice with the dress color.

    I think that white hydrangeas would look great with your dress. Why would your mom think it would clash? Do what you want! It's your wedding and anything goes!

     
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    Candy_Nee    May 1, 2010   Raleigh, NC

    Ok, the best thing to do is to take it one peice at a time.  If you start looking at EVERYTHING you have to do, you'll get overwhelmed very quickly!

    The BM dress is very pretty!  However, I think black may not go as well with it, especially in a June wedding.  Unless black is your accent color, then just ignore me! :)

    As for the boys' ties and flowers, what is your accent color?  That may help you as far as flowers go.

    I think a white shirt on the guys will be ok.  It's not like they'll be so close to you, it'll be noticeable.  Plus, if they're wearing a jacket, it'll really not be noticeable.

    Vintage pearls are always classic. In my opinion, they go with everything.

    On a side note, I'd tell the best man to hush!  So what if he doesn't like it.  It's your wedding!  I guess I'm just mean like that :)

    Good luck!  It will all turn out beautifully!!

     
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    jennybirdy    June 5, 2010   St. Louis, MO

    I agree with the prior posts.  White hydreangeas, or any white flowers will look beautiful with your dress and compliment the BM dresses really nicely.  I would also say that black shoes probably won't look the best.  I vote for silver. 

    The groomsmen's shirts will look fine in white.  For a tie, have you shopped around for something kind of simple, maybe a soft silver color? (I'm not the best when it comes to men's fashion, though!)

    See the aqua and white is so pretty:

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    crayfish    September 11, 2010   Berkeley, CA

    How about adding in a lighter aqua as an accent color? It would still be in the same family, and you could have the groomsmen wear their ties/pocket squares in that color? Or lighter tie and the pocket square the dark aqua of the bridesmaids dresses? Definitely don't do blue shirts. Trust your groomsmen on that one!! White will look perfectly fine next to your dress, I promise!

     
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    girlbrat89    June 20, 2010   Minnesota

    Got a little inspiration from this

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    girlbrat89    June 20, 2010   Minnesota

    What do you think?

     

     
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    jjwedding    May 14, 2011   Victoria, BC

    is your bestman paying?? my guess is no so have it the way you want it.. it not his wedding its yours... go for it!

     
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    girlbrat89    June 20, 2010   Minnesota

    Update... 

    Groomsmen:shirts, blue ties same blue mono-chromatic,Black suits.

    Bridesmaids: Blue dress ivory shoes custom maid jewelery that is sivler and match the dress.

    Me:ivory dress ,1 tier finger tip vei,l ivory lace heels neckalce to be determined, 

    Groom:Ivory shirt,  Same tie as groomsmen,black suit

     

     
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    VagabondGurl    August 7, 2010   Wedding: NH; Living: CA

    this is the first time i've read your post, but i'm glad when i got to the bottom to see the BMs weren't wearing black shoes!

    sounds like you've figured it all out!

    good luck!

     

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