(Closed) Confused about a girl

posted 5 years ago in Relationships
Post # 3
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145 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: January 2015

First don’t take you friend’s advice unless she gives you some hint that she thinks you are trying too hard/ annoying her by contacting her. Talk to her as much as you want to and try to let things flow. Don’t play games. 

Second my guess is that she thinks you lost interest by not contacting her today like you did before. Girls are sensitive just like guys lol. She is probably reading into it just like you are. She was clearly into you enough to give you her number. Why don’t you contact her again?

Post # 5
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Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: May 2013

Poor thing probably spent all day going “Why hasn’t he texte me? Did he meet someone else? Does he not like me any more? Did his grandmother die?”

Text tomorrow and say “Sorry about yesterday. My best  friend convinced me I was being creepy and pushy texting you every day.”

Post # 6
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145 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: January 2015

Maybe she’s just not good at responding over the phone. You could try to plan another get together. Her response will let you know if she is interested.

Post # 8
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285 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

I agree with fireflysushi. Dont listen to your friend.

 

If you want to call her, call! If she responses she likes you. If she doesnt move on to another fish.

 

Post # 9
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2013

Agreed – don’t listen to your friend. Never play mind games! When my fiance and I started dating I loved that he would text me regularly and I never thought it was creepy. I’m also the type of person who will assume that if a guy doesn’t text me then he’s not interested, so you could be sending her the wrong message right now unintentionally. Good luck 🙂

Post # 10
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

I don’t know…I kind of agree with your friend, especially given how fast you moved last time. Every day seems a bit excessive since you havent had a date on your own yet. second dates are usually pretty revealing as far as chemistry goes. Then you can be sure she’s really into you, and you her!

Post # 11
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430 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

Be real. Do you want to talk to her? If so contact her. Youd be surprised at how easy it is to read someone. If a girl answers your call and wants go out with you again, that’s a big yes she likes you enough to want to know more.

Post # 12
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: April 2013

If you want to talk to her every day… talk to her every day! My fiance and I have talked to each other almost every day since the day we met. Believe me, if she DIDN’T want to talk to you, she just wouldn’t answer the call.

Post # 13
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3079 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: April 2013 - A court...

@Packers12:  Lol i agree with those saying don’t take your friends advice. Whenever I’d be getting to know someone, I liked texting every day, it showed they were interested. If they happened to not text back, then i wouldn’t text them. Why? Because unless i have something to say that’s not small talk I’m not going to try keep conversation going if they don’t try. I don’t think acting hard to get works, show interest, message her 🙂

Post # 14
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Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

there’s no right or wrong when it comes to talking to someone you’re interested in – just go with what feels right!  For some girls, that might be talking every day, for others it might be every few days.  There’s no way for you to know other than her responses.  I do however recommend NOT texting constantly, at least at first – instead give her a CALL to chat!  Guys always got bonus points in my book for calling since no one does it anymore. It’s also more difficult to get to the annoying point of contacting too much via phone than it is via text. 

Post # 16
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: October 2010

@Packers12:  Today or tomorrow, call her (it wont be out of the blue, you’ve been texting) and ask for a date on Fri or Sat. You are over thinking this…again. Take a deep breath and just enjoy the feeling of liking someone. I’m assuming you like her. Since from you post it sounds like you are only contacting her because she was interested in you. Do you like her?

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