Confused and unsure of what to do! Building manager hitting on husband??

posted 3 years ago in Relationships
Post # 3
1625 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2014

@myluverbuny:  I don’t think it seems like your husband is doing anything fishy, but she is definitely acting inapproporiately. I think you should talk to him again about finding another place, and if you guys are really open with each other you might want to ask him to stop being so friendly with her. Instead of stopping and chatting about the car and being late to work, he should have waved, got in, and driven away. I would never be late to work because of politeness. He should distance himself and keep the relationship professional, less personal.

Post # 4
2197 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: March 2013

@myluverbuny:  First of all, deep breaths. I don’t think there is any reason to overreact. She might have been genuinely interested in the car. Maybe she’s in the market for a new one or likes new cars. She could just be friendly. Nothing has crossed any lines. No reason to get possesive or upset. You are pregnant, don’t stress yourself out over small things. Just be flattered that she might like him (again, could just be friendly). Take faith that your man loves YOU and is with YOU. 

Post # 5
236 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2011

She sounds like a real peach. It sounds like your husband is honest with you though so I wouldn’t think he’s cheating or even thinking about it. Talk to him about how you don’t want to stay in that same apartment building so there’s no reason to look at a two bedroom.  and maybe make a point to have all correspondence about your current apartment be directed to you and not your husband, 

Post # 8
1106 posts
Bumble bee

@myluverbuny:  that sounds totally weird. He may have only told you that story just in case someone may have seen them down there alone together in the car maybe? And told you so he has an alibi if someone says anythig to you. you guys were planning on moving and now all of a sudden he wants to stay? It sounds sketchy. You also said you have a little one on the way. Everytime I hear about someone’s husband having an affair its usually when the wife is pregnant. maybe bc of less intimacy idk I’m just saying pay close attention to every little detail and take notice if he starts talking about her more often. But don’t say anything to him about it I would investigate everything before mentioning anything or giving him a heads up you think something’s going on bc then he will just get sneakier. 

Post # 9
967 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

I think you are overreacting. People interact. It doesn’t mean they have nefarious intentions. And even if the manger does, it doesn’t seem like you husband does. Take a breath!

Post # 10
4893 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: July 2012

@Fluffmallow:  +1

And even if she is blatently hitting on him, if he knows his boundaries (and it sounds like he probably does), I don’t think there’s anything to do/anything to worry about. Trust your husband. 🙂

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