- 7 years ago
- Wedding: November 2011
I am feeling super depressed a lately and a lot of stressed. I feel like if I wasn’t having this wedding I wouldn’t feel like this.
Fi and I are great right now its other stuff that is driving me crazy that is wedding related and a few that isn’t.
When we got engaged over a year ago I asked my two best of friends at the time to be in the wedding (well they told me they couldnt wait to be bridesmaids so I just asked them) and now well we aren’t that close and rarely talk and one of them makes me always feel bad by posting on her FB about how I am a bad friend because we have drifted apart and its my fault since I moved far away. In my defense I didnt want to move far away but I did what I had to do for my family. Anywho before I get off subject now since we arent so close I really dont want them in the wedding. OH MY I feel horrible for saying it out loud but I have a timeline. How do you kick someone out? or what do you say???
Our wedding isnt until next November but wow it is creeping up on us fast! 13 months to go now! By this November I wanted to properly ask the bridal party to be in the wedding by sending a card and letting them know the cost of the dress and the timeline of the wedding and to make sure they really want to be in the wedding. Since its on a friday I wanted them to know the timeline way in advance they will need to take off work or get off early so that is why I wanted to start asking them in November.
What to do bees? Am I being selfish or should I just let stand in it since they will be attending anyways?
They haven’t helped me AT ALL for the wedding and the other bridesmaid that I have already told them to be in the wedding have helped me soooo much!! I can’t stand when people say let me know if you need help because I do not want to ask for help. But the other girls have been so awesome they come over and just start talking with me and helping me. Two of my BM have gone with me wedding shopping and gone with me to all the bridal shows and to get my dress. One of them is already finding the stuff I need for my invitations and STDs. The other girls have been so amazing that it makes me not want the other two girls in there.
I am so confused and not having a great day. =/