- 6 years ago
- Wedding: December 2012
I been with my fiance for about 5 years now and we got engaged in November. We have had a rocky past he cheated on me in the past as far as I know only in the past. Since our engagement we been really happy u know our occasional fight here and then mostly nonsense. Recently its like we don’t even know eachother I feel as if I’m single. Everything feels so diffrent, all he wants to do is sleep, he dosent even want to have sex, he always tells me my imperfections he would never do that now that’s all does. He won’t call me like usual I have to start texting him now or he won’t even try, we do hang out but its diffrent not like a couple that’s going to get married its more freindship if that. I want to be married to him but i feel as we will get divorced soon after the marriage something, is just telling me to call ito off!
Could he be suffering from depression because that’s what it sounds like. And if that’s what your gut is telling you then take some time to figure out exactly why. Your right not to ignore these feelings.
You should talk to him and figure out what’s going on. If he won’t talk to you then I think your gut feeling is right…if you can’t communicate now, I don’t know if you’ll be able to when you’re married.
@jenpenp: iam so sorry your going Thur this sweet heart ; (
and i hate to ask what im about to ask could it be drugs?
that would change a person. but in any case you shouldn’t marry him if your feeling this way have a talk with him but marrying him wont make things better i’m sorry.
blessings and good luck!
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