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Congregation Participation

posted 3 years ago in Ceremony
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    MrsCPT    08-08-09   Texas

    I have read in the blogs where a few of the bees had the congregation participate in the ceremony by saying "we do" in response to certain prompts.  I would love to read various versions of what people had the congregants agree to do.  I think I want to include this in my ceremony, but I am having a difficult time writing it.

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    musingsfromhere    12 July 2008   Canada

    In the newer marriage service in the Anglican Church (similar, I think in the Episcopal church), the priest asks:
    "You are the witnesses to these vows now being made.  Will you do all in your power to support and uphold this marriage?"

    Congregation: "We will"
    (it comes right after a question asking the families if they give their blessing to the marriage).

     
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    Gilneas    October 10, 2010   NJ

    I'm a wedding officiant, and these are some of the guest vows that I share with my couples.  I love this idea, and always reccomend it when couples want to have their family and friends feel very involved with the ceremony.  I put it after the "I do's" or the vows.

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    Celebrant:    When you accepted [Bride] & [Groom]''s invitation to join them here today,  you accepted also a very special responsibility and role in their lives. By asking you to bear witness to all that is in their hearts, they share with you precious memories and a knowledge of why and how  all is so right for them. These insights are a tool that may later be  called upon in times when good council is needed. So I must now ask you; Do you promise that you will do everything in your power to  support them in their union? That you will encourage them always to seek the comfort and strength of their togetherness through the storms and stress that life will bring. And that you shall use what  you have heard and seen here today, to remind them that the beauty  and joy they share this day was meant to last a lifetime. If this is your intention please answer now "We do!"

    Guests:    We do!

    Option 2

    Celebrant:     You all have come here today not just to witness [Bride] & [Groom]'s love and devotion to each other, but to show your own love and support for them.  Our couple has asked that you join them in this wonderful moment in their lives, by taking your own vows.  If you agree, please answer with WE WILL!

    Will you support [Bride] & [Groom] in their marriage?  

    Guests:     We will.  

    Celebrant:    If needed, will you listen and offer counsel in times of hardship?  

    Guests:    We will.  

    Celebrant:    Will you celebrate with them, encourage them, and remind them of this day?  

    Guests:    We will.

    Option 3

    Celebrant:    Marriage is the bringing together of two circles of love to present a new circle of love.  The bride's family and friends have supported her during her life, as the groom's family and friends have supported him through his life.

    Your love and support does not stop now that they will be married. We ask you, the people here today whose relationships has been honored by your invitation to attend, to bless and nurture the marriage of [Bride] and [Groom]. We ask you to offer your loving support through all the days of their marriage.

     
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    MrsCPT    08-08-09   Texas

    Thanks everyone.  This will certainly help!

     
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    meggles    June 6, 2009   UK

    Another "congregation" part we intend to incorporate is a ring warming - the rings are passed around for each member to hold and "give good thoughts".  yes, a bit hippy, but we love it. 

     
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    tiramisu    July 19, 2008   Maine

    Mrs Lovebug holds the title of Bee with the Most-Oft Stolen Ceremony.... and for good reason:

    http://www.weddingbee.com/2008/04/10/important-words-part-i/

    We adapted her words and did something similar, hope that helps!

     

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