- 6 years ago
Because I had to go work and just got a break and couldn’t respond to anyone about anything. There is a lot! and I mean a LOT that I have left to say about this subject.
1. I gave up parental rights to my child some time ago, it had to do with the prenup that I signed that Ex-H got the court to recognize. Long story. Don’t want to get into it. So, while I have a biological child….I am unable to be involved in her life anymore. It sucks. Nothing I can do about it.
2. I’ve decided that I’m going to just have a private “personal vow” ceremony. I’m not going to call it a wedding. Just me, and a photographer. Yes, I will have a big, white dress, and bouquet and probably an extremely expensive dinner and a venue (It’s a private beach on Lake Tahoe that you can rent for two hour blocks) but it will be only myself there. Then I plan to take a cruise of some sort. I will cancel my registries. ( I registered for housewares….I lost most of my stuff when my EX-H and I divorced. I lost most of the rest when Shutterbug left, as we were using HIS housewares.)
So….I’ll still be planning….something…..but it won’t be a wedding.