Post # 1
I found these bridesmaid dresses that cost $249.99 and i abololutely love them however I am afraid of what my bridesmaids will think of the cost. Does anyone think that it is too much to spend on a bridesmaid dress or is it about average?
Thanks for your help!
Post # 2
That’s more than I’d be willing to pay, but your bridesmaids might feel differently. The best thing to do is ask them how much they’re comfortable spending and then find a dress in that price range.
Post # 3
Ashley029: I think that you need to see what your girls are able to budget for. Personally I would not be able to afford a $250 plus alterations.
If you really love the dresses would you be able to make a contribution toward the cost to limit the out of pocket fro the girls?
Also do you have any plus size girls? Because most designers have an upcharge for dresses 18+
Post # 4
I don’t know what your friends’ financial situations are like, but if I selected $250 dresses, I would definitely offer to kick in $100 towards each dress, pay for alterations, or some combination thereof.
Post # 5
Ashley029: Check with your bridesmaids, but for me that is too much. Maybe if you don’t ask gifts from them or if none of them have to travel for your wedding. Being in the bridal party is a lot less fun when it becomes a financial burden, so consider that also.
Post # 6
Ashley029: you have to ask your girls this question. My girls were willing to spend up to $250-300 but that doesn’t mean other people will be okay with it. Is there a reason you can’t get their input for a budget??? Also, what is the potential alterations cost? We found a place that included alterations.
Post # 7
Ashley029: also ask them their budgets before even mentioning the $250 dress. If you mention it they will probably feel obligated to tell you it is ok.
Post # 8
Ashley029: I think it’s too much for essentially a disposable dress.
if you kicked in $100 or bought it for me, I wouldn’t complain since it shows that you’re thoughtful about the dress.
Post # 9
My girls spent $300 on their dresses. I knew they would be ok with it and I would do it for them so i went for the dresses I loved And that will look beautiful On them. Totally depends on the group of people.
Post # 10
bitsybee: i agree. too much for a dress they’ll never wear again.
Post # 11
It definitely depends on the person/group so I agree with checking on their budget. I know for me personally it’s more than I’d want to spend on a bridesmaid dress that most likely I’m not going to wear again (even though brides always think people will wear them again).
Post # 12
I think it’s a little on the high end. My girls’ dresses cost $215 and I thought that was high.
Post # 13
I wouldn’t spend that much on a dress. Perhaps if you really love them you can add in some of your own money to lessen their burden? My bm dresses were $120, and I paid for them.
Post # 14
I would not be happy. I can afford it, but I do not want to spend that much money on a dress, especially because if it is one set dress, I probably can’t wear it again.
Example, I am in a wedding this weekend with a beautiful dress. I look great in it, but it is too low cut for me to wear for another purpose. I am annoyed I had to pay about half of that for a dress that I won’t wear again. I can’t imagine paying more than $150 untiless I got some say in the dress.
Post # 15
Like others said, you need to ask them their budget and go from there. I paid for ours myself and they were like $150.