(Closed) Could she be annoyed that I’m borrowing ideas from her wedding?

posted 7 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
5388 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: December 2010

@blondie_6547: It seems like she is okay with you borrowing her ideas. Maybe you can ask if you can use her veil as your ‘something borrowed’. I’m sure that she would be honored.

Post # 4
26 posts
  • Wedding: August 2012

@trugem: good way to turn an awkward situation into something positive.. and might make the friend feel special to be incorporated into her’s friend’s wedding day!

Post # 5
133 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: May 2011

@blondie_6547:well.. i would be careful but I also say you have to know your friend.  If she is kind hearted and doesn’t care, then go for it! but watch out because she could say one thing an feel another way and you don’t want to lose a friend. Shop around.. look at other options.. you never know what you might find.

I’m in a similar situation.  My best friend (who is male) got married in August 2010 and they had a concept in their wedding I was going to use (I didn’t tell them I had thought of the same thing).  When I saw it.. i was heart broken b/c it was “my thing”. I refuse to do it now (my weddings in may 2011) because I want my wedding to be my wedding and different : (

Good luck

Post # 6
1235 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: July 2011

Ask. She sounds like she doesn’t care too much about you borrowing aspects and let’s face it, NOBODY remembers what the veil looks like except for future brides who overanalize every detail.

Post # 7
578 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

I agree with above that you have to know ur friend…  a friend of mine got engaged the same year as me and I started saying stuff about my wedding and she was like ya that sounds awesome I was like ok? I dont really know her (only 2years) but I want my wedding to be “my wedding”…  but ur friends sounds like she is ok with it so go with it!  free stuff or borrowed stuff rocks!

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