(Closed) Could use some advice..

posted 5 years ago in Relationships
Post # 3
Member
772 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

@MissB15:  I think there has to be some compromise here.  You want to sleep, he wants to stay up… who should give in?  Why should he versus you?  It goes both ways. 

I would talk to him about it again, and see if you guys can commit to a schedule.  For example… if Tuesday and Friday are your days off, PLAN SOMETHING!!!  Even if it’s just one night a week.  Not only is it more fun than laying around the house, it gives you both something to look forward to.  And you know what – if you wind up staying out until midnight despite having to go into work the next day… big deal!  Catch up on your Z’s the next day.

As far as the wedding planning goes, don’t put too much pressure on him.  I think most of us (women) expect the guys to be gung-ho about the planning.  Typically they’re not.  Add odd work hours on top of that.  Yuck!  Don’t get on his case about it.  Just do the best you can with the plans… don’t take on too much that you can’t handle on your own.  And don’t allow yourself to start resenting him for all the work you’re doing.

Post # 4
Member
340 posts
Helper bee

This is an issue you two need to resolve because it could cause you two to grow apart. If I were you, I would email him or text him for his suggestion on wedding type questions. I would schedule date nights at least twice a week and make it a priority to grow together and not apart.

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