- 5 years ago
- Wedding: June 2013
As time grows closer for when I get to marry the man of my dreams, I feel heavy. I feel like I have this timeline in my head and my Matron of Honor and my Maid/Matron of Honor aren’t understanding why I want to do things at a certain time. I obviously don’t want to have bridal shower or bachelorette party before the new year. One, because I don’t turn 21 until January and two, because now, it is going to be too hectic for a retail worker and everyone doing things for the holiday season. I want all of my Bridesmaid or Best Man to be here for those things and two of them live out of town. Ones mother is flying her in when I am going to do my shower and bach party. The other, my sister, wouldn’t be able to afford to fly here for those and the wedding. I suggested to do the shower and party in Feb. It spaces out in enough time for my best friend that is a Bridesmaid or Best Man and lives in FL to be able to take off work and come. They say it is too soon. Wedding in June. I am a college student and so from April-May I will be finishing school stuff and having to finish prepping for the wedding. Am I being too eager or is okay that I wanna do it that early? They aren’t understanding where I am coming from and are giving me grief. I don’t want to be a bridezilla, I just want things to go my way and on my time.