Court house vs actual ceremony

posted 2 years ago in Family
Post # 2
Member
2017 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: July 2016

 

Shvern:  Tell her to suck it up and do what you want to do. Your idea sounds perfect to me!

I’ve had some flack about wanting mine to be small for SO’s sake but never about how I wanted to do it. I don’t get the “disgusting” comment at all btw. Plus because someone else didn’t get one, you shouldn’t? Psssht throw that line of thinking out the window.

Post # 3
Member
3707 posts
Sugar bee

Shvern:  When someone is as negative as your FMIL, don’t share any details with her and just send her an invitation. I have a feeling she might not attend, if she’s so disgusted by your ideas, which sounds like it will be better for you, anyway. I don’t know why people have to be so negative; it sounds like it’ s rooted in jealousy, because she didn’t have a wedding, which is very immature.

Post # 4
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7395 posts
Busy Beekeeper

Shvern:  If you guys are paying then the only opinions that matter belong to you and your FI. If your FMIL finds what the both of you decide to host for your wedding disgusting then she is free to rsvp no but I doubt she will.

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