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I got married 10/29/11, my younger cousin (20 years old) came wearing a short ivory pooffy dress, that looked like something i would have worn as a reception dress, VERY BRIDAL looking... anyways i was upset but blew it off cause i thought maybe she didnt understand that you dont wear white to someones wedding seeing as she is younger and hasnt been to very many weddings.
Talked to her dad and brother today, yea she did it on purpose and wanted to make me upset, she doesnt like who i married and apparently has gone through several BF's in the last couple years, earger to get married and she was pissed that i was getting married before her..... which doesnt make any sense what so ever since i have been with my husband for 3 years before we got married and im also 4 years older than her, and she hasnt even had a steady relationship (nothing longer than 5 months).
After i talked to her dad and brother, i was going to be the bigger person and put all this petty nonsense behind me, it doesnt matter what she wore. Acting as if i didnt hear anything from the two of them, i emailed her one of the photos from the photographer of her and I (beautiful picture). She posted it on Facebook and wrote all this crap about looking better than the bride!! I am not one of her facebook friends but i am friends with her brother who posted on her wall (you know you can see when one of your friends writes on anyones walls) Her words exactly "Doesnt it look like im the one getting married? It should have been since im the one that looks better in white :), and actually should be wearing white... if you know what i mean"
Now i want to wring this girls neck, i have always been nice to her, i didnt even know she didnt like me till all this... I have to see her on Christmas, should i say something to her or AGAIN just be the bigger person and let her be a miserable little brat :)
Jealousy much? I would ignore her though I am sure it is really hurtful.
... if you know what i mean"
sorry but i actually laughed - i mean what is she, twelve because shes acting like it
dont give her any oxygen, let her be judged for her poor behaviour and words while you will come out looking classy and mature
Don't fuel the fire. She is just egging you on. It will drive her crazy if "you don't care" If you say something she wil "win" and maybe even keep it going.
Just wanted to add...What a little bitch!
wow, i would be irritated!!! but continue ignoring it... she's making herself look SO pathetic
I agree with everyone else, just ignore the little brat. She'll be more upset when she finds out that you don't give a stick what she's saying. That'll for sure tick her off more. You don't want to giver her a reason to be even more unbearable and somehow twist it so that you look like the bad guy.
@HeatherShane: haha if i were you, i'd be all lovey dovey in front of your husband and keep calling him as such. kinda rubbing it in that your married. but i'm pretty witchy sometimes.
Wow she is so rude! I'd just keep ignoring her then when her someday wedding rolls around wear a white dress! (joking- kind of)
90% of me wants to say punch her at the christmas dinner haha... but the 10% of me that is right says ignore it like the pp's have said.
What a little biotch though. No wonder she doesn't have any steady relationships, she seems totally toxic.
what a stupid little brat. I would be incredibly tempted to say, hey saw your comments about me. exhibits a-z on why I have found a husband and you are still a silly little girl.
But in reality, it's best to ignore her and I would completely ignore her at all future events. She doesn't deserve the time of day from you.
Thanks everyone, you are all right im just going to continue ignoring her.
@peterpotamus: I usually wouldnt do something like that to rub it in but i just might this Christmas :)
@HappilyEverAfter54: I joked with her at the wedding that i was, she told me go right ahead, so i just might... when/if it ever happens
Wow...that would really make my blood boil! Ugh....what a skeevy little twit. But (as much as it pains me to say it, and my gut reaction would be to say something less-than-PG-rated to her), it is probably better to just ignore her. Karma will bite her. It is no wonder she can't hold a relationship for more than 5 months...
Seriously-no wonder her relationships only last for 5 months! She's jealous & pathetic.
oh, wow, what a horrid girl (woman?) Yeah, just try your best to ignore it, and definitely be as happy and mushy with your hubby in front of her! hahaha~!
@HeatherShane: you should! ...and go all out with a train and bead work... yes that would be lovely LOL
Oh geez, how pathetic! Jealous much? I'd be embarrassed to post anything like that.
I'd just pity her and move on. She sounds like a miserable person to be around so no wonder she's single. 
Igrnore her and perhaps if she gets married one day, wear a figure hugging red sequin dress or accidently spill a bit of red wine on her gown 
petty little biatch...no wonder no ones stepping up to the plate to take her off the market. LoL
Sorry you have to deal with that, but you WERE GORGEOUS!
I can't stop laughing at the immaturity of this girl! I used to teach 7th grade and her comments seem right on par with the kind of snotty comments I was constantly hearing my kids make. UGH!
Ignore her and continue to treat her pleasantly when you see her. Immature brats like her don't deserve a second thought from you. Jealousy is a sad, sad thing, especially from someone who is clearly too young/immature to even fathom what a marriage is all about - definitely the kind of person who is only looking at the big party and not a moment beyond that. I hope for her sake she grows up someday and realises the one day party means nothing, it's the rest of her life with her husband that actually matters.
I'm pretty vindictive, but even I would say to just not respond to her because it seems like she's probably fishing for you to retaliate. Sorry she's acting like a little b*tch, but at least you found now, so when she does get married I agree with PP's...tight red sequined mini or an ivory lace cocktail dress or something...but I'm passive aggressive too so I'm probably no help :)
Ooooh wow. It would be tough not to say anything, but honestly - what will it accomplish? Clearly she has the mind of a child and if you respond to her behaviour she'll probably love every second of it.
Although...dot dot dot...it WOULD be pretty funny if you saw her and said something along the lines of "So good to see you! You look so healthy with all that weight you've put on!"
Tehe.
HOLY COW! So rude! And childish! I agree with every other poster saying ignore it. You can vent to other people though to make you feel better! Jeeeeez.
UMMMMM...her to grow up!!! matter of fact...dont say anything to her! just leave it alone!
Wow what a jealous little bitch! I agree ignore her and flaunt yor happiness in her face. I also like @ckow85 suggestion on complimenting her on her weight gain.
Just out of curriosity, do you have pictures of what she wore?
If this is how this girl is, she has a long life of misery ahead of her. Let it go. And feel free to wear white at all of her weddings-cuz you know, there will be more than one.
"Like" the photo. Just so she knows you saw it. Otherwise, ignore it and her. Be super polite and happy with your husband when you're around her. You'll draw the crazy out of her and she will be exposed for the nutcase that she is.
Please, please, please wear your wedding gown to her wedding (whenever that is)!!
That is so immature.
I agree with everyone else that you should ignore her. Although, I do like the idea of "liking" the photo! haha!
If she keeps acting that way, she'll always be able to wear white... if you know what I mean.
Can you comment on the photo too?
"could've would've should've... too bad you cant seem to keep a guy around much less find one who wants to marry you... if you know what I mean"
Lol, what an idiot.
I've got to admit, I'd be one of the ones to be like, "Well since we're married..." Or "My husband..." Just to be a bitch in a more subtle way. Lol. I also like the idea of "liking" the photo.
In person though, ignore her stupidity. Nothing makes people more mad than to see you happy, so I would sugarcoat my life a bit. La de da, life is perfect. At least around her. ;)
OMG WELL WOW yea I would manage to rub my husband into EVERY conversation.
I'd call her out! Actually, I wouldn't cause I hate confrontation, but I would want to call her out and embarrass her! What a imature girl!
Ugh, as much as I think you should ignore her and not dignify her behavior with a response, I would be so tempted to just say "So...how come I'm the one in the wedding dress and not you? If you know what I mean..."
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