Post # 1
I got married 10/29/11, my younger cousin (20 years old) came wearing a short ivory pooffy dress, that looked like something i would have worn as a reception dress, VERY BRIDAL looking… anyways i was upset but blew it off cause i thought maybe she didnt understand that you dont wear white to someones wedding seeing as she is younger and hasnt been to very many weddings.
Talked to her dad and brother today, yea she did it on purpose and wanted to make me upset, she doesnt like who i married and apparently has gone through several BF’s in the last couple years, earger to get married and she was pissed that i was getting married before her….. which doesnt make any sense what so ever since i have been with my husband for 3 years before we got married and im also 4 years older than her, and she hasnt even had a steady relationship (nothing longer than 5 months).
After i talked to her dad and brother, i was going to be the bigger person and put all this petty nonsense behind me, it doesnt matter what she wore. Acting as if i didnt hear anything from the two of them, i emailed her one of the photos from the photographer of her and I (beautiful picture). She posted it on Facebook and wrote all this crap about looking better than the bride!! I am not one of her facebook friends but i am friends with her brother who posted on her wall (you know you can see when one of your friends writes on anyones walls) Her words exactly “Doesnt it look like im the one getting married? It should have been since im the one that looks better in white :), and actually should be wearing white… if you know what i mean”
Now i want to wring this girls neck, i have always been nice to her, i didnt even know she didnt like me till all this… I have to see her on Christmas, should i say something to her or AGAIN just be the bigger person and let her be a miserable little brat 🙂
Post # 3
Jealousy much? I would ignore her though I am sure it is really hurtful.
Post # 4
… if you know what i mean”
sorry but i actually laughed – i mean what is she, twelve because shes acting like it
dont give her any oxygen, let her be judged for her poor behaviour and words while you will come out looking classy and mature
Post # 5
I say continue ignoring her.
Post # 6
Don’t fuel the fire. She is just egging you on. It will drive her crazy if “you don’t care” If you say something she wil “win” and maybe even keep it going.
Just wanted to add…What a little bitch!
Post # 7
wow, i would be irritated!!! but continue ignoring it… she’s making herself look SO pathetic
Post # 8
I agree with everyone else, just ignore the little brat. She’ll be more upset when she finds out that you don’t give a stick what she’s saying. That’ll for sure tick her off more. You don’t want to giver her a reason to be even more unbearable and somehow twist it so that you look like the bad guy.
Post # 9
@HeatherShane: haha if i were you, i’d be all lovey dovey in front of your husband and keep calling him as such. kinda rubbing it in that your married. but i’m pretty witchy sometimes.
Post # 10
Wow she is so rude! I’d just keep ignoring her then when her someday wedding rolls around wear a white dress! (joking- kind of)
Post # 11
90% of me wants to say punch her at the christmas dinner haha… but the 10% of me that is right says ignore it like the pp’s have said.
What a little biotch though. No wonder she doesn’t have any steady relationships, she seems totally toxic.
Post # 12
what a stupid little brat. I would be incredibly tempted to say, hey saw your comments about me. exhibits a-z on why I have found a husband and you are still a silly little girl.
But in reality, it’s best to ignore her and I would completely ignore her at all future events. She doesn’t deserve the time of day from you.
Post # 13
Thanks everyone, you are all right im just going to continue ignoring her.
@peterpotamus: I usually wouldnt do something like that to rub it in but i just might this Christmas 🙂
@HappilyEverAfter54: I joked with her at the wedding that i was, she told me go right ahead, so i just might… when/if it ever happens
Post # 14
No wonder why she’s never had a steady relationship.
Post # 15
Wow…that would really make my blood boil! Ugh….what a skeevy little twit. But (as much as it pains me to say it, and my gut reaction would be to say something less-than-PG-rated to her), it is probably better to just ignore her. Karma will bite her. It is no wonder she can’t hold a relationship for more than 5 months…
Post # 16
Seriously-no wonder her relationships only last for 5 months! She’s jealous & pathetic.