- 6 years ago
- Wedding: September 2013
I dont know what to do for the best. My cousin got married 3 years ago to a guy who was friends with her brother all through school. It has always seemed strage that these two people are together as my cousin is very much a tom boy, doesnt wear make up or spend a lot of time making herself look nicer (she is naturally beautiful though) and he is very much the type of guy who spends hours in front of the mirror with nicely clipped facial hair and what have you. His ex girlfriends have always been busty blondes who look like barbie. My cousin is a twin and so is this guys mum. His mum was desperate to have twins again in the family and it was almost as if she pushed hm to marry her.
Anyway-they got married and have 2 beautiful children together one of which is only 2 months old. But the thing is i am friends with this guy on facebook (we went to the same school) and i swear he keeps hitting on me. He keeps asking when im next in my home town and if i want to meet him for a drink-alone. He has said things to me in the past too which i wasnt comfortable with such as i think i married the wrong cousin!!
I would delete him off facebook but this is the only way i can keep in touch with my cousin-she doesnt do mobiles or facebook and i like to look at pictures of her children as they grow up. i dont get to go to my hometown all that often.
I know hes cheated by the things hes told me, he spends a lot of time away on ‘business’.
He asked me the other day when the wedding is and i told him, to which he replied, but you havent asked me to marry you yet. When ever he makes comments i log off and just ignore him. It might all be innocent but i dont think he should be saying things like this to me,
I dont know whether to tell my cousin or not. I know they are having a few issues at the moment but they do have a new baby.
Sorry for ant spelling errors im rushing because i need to get to work!!
EDIT: sorry posted in the wrong place oops