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Cover it Up or Remove it?

posted 2 years ago in Beauty
  • poll: What should I do with my tattoo?
    Cover it up with a better tattoo : (7 votes)
    15 %
    Remove it : (40 votes)
    85 %
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    sloth    May 14, 2011   Philadelphia, PA

    When I was 18 (which, for reference, was almost 17 years ago), I got a really really really really really really really really really really really really REALLY stupid tattoo on my upper arm/shoulder area. Why? Because I was young and stupid. I wanted something different than the tribal armbands that were so big in the early/mid 90's and ended up with something that I loved for a month, liked for a year, tolerated for another year, and regretted ever since.

    I'm too embarrassed to even post a photo of it.

    Since none of the cap-sleeve dresses that I tried on looked good on me, I'm going to have a strapless dress and the stupid tattoo is going to show. Now, I have a few options I've been considering.

    Option #1: Get the tattoo covered up with a better tattoo. I have a friend who is a tattoo artist and he'll cut me a deal. I'm probably get it covered up with some pretty flowers, like these (the photos below are for artistic inspiration only, not placement):

    Cover it Up or Remove it? :  wedding Flowers Chest&deltoid1 G

    Cover it Up or Remove it? :  wedding Sholder Tattoo

    Pros:

    • It will look pretty instead of stupid

    Cons:

    • I'll still have a tattoo there even though I don't really want one there, period

    Option #2: Spring for some laser tattoo removal. Get the damned thing blasted off of my body.

    Pros:

    • The tattoo will be (I hope) gone

    Cons:

    • It's more expensive than getting my friend to cover it up
    • I'll have to go back for many repeat sessions
    • Apparently, it hurts more than the tattoo itself
    • There is no guarantee that it will ever really go away

    So? What would you do if you were me?

     

     
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    olya    June 6, 2010  

    if you don't want a tattoo there at all, might as well remove it.. and if it's not completely gone by the time your wedding rolls around, you can always cover up the remnants with airbrushed makeup

     
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    ing2foru    April 26, 2010   Oklahoma/Wedding in Vegas

    I think if you are no longer happy with the tattoo, you should have it removed.  I think even if you cover it up, you still might not like it because you said in your con for option 1 that you don't want one there period.  So with that statement, you should just have it removed.  Good luck with whatever you choose!

     
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    mouse    September 11, 2009   Austin, TX

    Get rid of it. If you don't want a tattoo there, you're not going to be happy with the coverup.

     
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    MissHelen    November 20, 2010   California

    Gooooooood question. Honestly, I'd spring for removing it since you don't want anything there anyway. My understanding is that the age and vibrancy of the tattoo determines if it goes away completely. Look at it this way, if it doesn't, you could always add a prettier tattoo later.

    For the wedding though, could you have a make up artist cover it up?

     
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    beachbride0810    August 21, 2010  

    I said remove it simply because you don't "really want one there, period." I know it would be more expensive to have it removed, but I can't see putting any money towards covering it, when you really just want it gone.  Of course, as you said, there's no guarantee that it will be completely gone, but anytime I've seen this done, the results come out really well.  It will probably be unnoticable to most people!  Good luck with whatever you decide!  :)

    oh ... and I just wanted to add that if you do decide to cover it, the flowers are very pretty, anyway! 

     
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    duck    May 13, 2012   new orleans

    i say if you don't like it get it removed...yeah it might be more expensive, but it sounds like (from your post) you aren't too thrilled with getting it covered up by another one...

    you could start getting the laser treatments now and if its not totally removed by the wedding get your make up artist to cover it all up with airbrushing (i have a friend that did this and you couldn't even tell! it was amazing!)

     

    either way, i hope you are finally able to be happy with it! best of luck!

     
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    sloth    May 14, 2011   Philadelphia, PA

    I'm worried that a makeup artist won't be able to cover it. I've tried several tattoo concealers (including Kat Von D's) and they don't work worth a damn.

    And it's not just the wedding I'm concerned with, it's life in general. I hate not being able to wear anything sleeveless because I have a dumb tattoo. I really do love those floral ones, I'm just afraid that I won't when I'm 50.

     
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    jaylovessteez    September 19, 2010   CA

    Sephora sells a coverup made under the Kat Von D line...

    I would personally say cover it with a bigger prettier tattoo LOL just because i love tattoos!!  but then again it is your body so i think the final decision

     
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    naangel55    June 20, 2009   Long Beach, CA

    I would say if you dont want the tattoo and you dont like, remove it.  I dont think you will like it any more if you add anything to it.

     
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    VirginiaMarie    January 2011   Austin, TX

    Remove it!

    How big are we talking?   Quarter size? Size of someone's palm?  bigger?

     
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    sloth    May 14, 2011   Philadelphia, PA

    Do any of you guys know anyone who has gotten a tattoo removed before? How did it work out?

     
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    Chachacha    June 2010   Minneapolis, MN

    I think you should remove it. You said you don't really want a tattoo on your arm so covering it up (although very beautiful) won't really get rid of the problem.

     
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    Future Mrs. Martin    August 21, 2010   London Ontario Canada

    I vote to remove it! You don't want it and so I think covering it up with more tattoos is counterproductive!

     
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    Cricket1524    September 4, 2010   Burbank, CA

    But you say you like the prettier floral ones? I say cover it as long as the friend is a rockin artist. I go to a hair salon where the girls are COVERED in tattoos (Kat Von D goes there too lol) and the girl who owns it is married to some famous tattoo artist. I ask them about it all the time and I've learned a lot. I have one that I adore but I waited until I was 26 to get it. The girls all say it's really the artist that makes the tattoo, get a good artist and the tattoo will mean a lot more and last forever (with the proper up keep - you have to go get it relined every so many years). I've been salivating over the pics of brides I've seen with beautiful florals all across their arms or chest it looks so striking against a gown. Here's the thing yes you do silly things when you're young but do you think you'll regret the decision you make now later? If you make the flowers mean something, maybe get the flowers you're going to have on your wedding day that way it'll always be with you? Is there a loved one who's passed on that you could use their favorite flower? Something to make it meaningful. Mine is a single medium sized cherry blossom but old school asian style gray scale no color I just like the meaning of cherry blossoms and it really represents a special time in my life so it's always going to be special to me even though its simple. You need to find something like that if you're gunna do it and really I get the feeling you kinda want to.

    Oh and my sister had some removed and they are so not cheap and they hurt like hell, really really bad (I think they even gave her pain killers) and there is no guarantee that it doesn't start to slightly show again after a while  . . .

     
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    Cricket1524    September 4, 2010   Burbank, CA

    oh and think of the tattoo's Angelina Jolie has the ones, that are coordinates of where each of her children were born, that covers the tattoo she had lasered off because it didn't completely go away.

     
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    Sulli301    June 26, 2010   Michigan

    I say Remove it is you don't want one there at all...you won't like the cover up much better, atleast not for long!

    I, too, got a tat at 18 and luckily it is tiny (think the size of a quarter) and it is hidden (hipbone) but I wish I could get it removed...maybe someday!

    anyone ever had one removed? how was the process and price?

     
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    shannon1126    August 21, 2010   Washington, Wedding in Vegas

    If you arent happy with it and really dont want another one there then I vote remove it. I wouldnt get something bigger than you may end up regretting later and then wanting that removed. 

    -My mom got one removed and she said it hurt worse than the tattoo but never really complained about it. She went in every 3 weeks or so until it was completely gone. I think she paid like $50 a session or something like that. They just use a laser and basically burn the ink out of your skin and its done a little at a time that way it doesnt traumatize the skin

     
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    smith207    October 2, 2010  

    What is the price difference between getting a new one and removing it? 

     
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    Nerdette       Toronto,ON

    I'm gonna jump on the remove it bandwagon! I keep picturing the worst case scenario. You get a new one to replace it and then hate that one eventually too, then you'll still end up removing it and the loathed re-do will be in your wedding pictures. Maybe i'm spinning and it's not so dire a that, but from your poll you just seem to not be into having a tattoo anymore... good luck whatever you decide!!

     
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    Ms.Teddy    April 2011   South Carolina

    I think it would be best if you removed it...it sounds like that is what you are leaning towards...if you just do a new one you are just covering something up that you never wanted in the first place...and it sounds like you dont want the tattoo there period. so although its gonna hurt and cost money...I think ultimately you will only be happy when its gone...

     
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    theeekingeek    August 21, 2010   Pittsburgh, PA

    Hopefully this helps since I have had experience with this lol.

    I have a tattoo on my shoulder that I have had 3 laser removal session on and it is STILL very clear, faded...but I have a long way to go until it's gone.

    Lucky for me I am getting it covered with another tattoo, I was just lightening it so it would cover better. My fiance is my tattoo arist. Laser removal does HURT, terribly. 1,000 times worse then getting the tattoo. It stings and burns and it smells. After my 1st session I was left with an 1inch wide and tall blister over my tattoo. It was terrible and super gross. The blisters lessen in size the more sessions you get.

    My laser removal is cheaper since my fiance has a connection at a tattoo shop that has it, BUT it would have ran me about $500 a session. Instead it costs me $100.

    Also keep in mind it won't ever be completely gone and your skin pigment will reflect that. They often scar and leave that area of the skin lighter and damaged, especially if your naturally tan like myself :(. It sucks really bad.

     

    Alsooo, it takes about 6 months for 1 session to take full affect. Most places will do your sessions that far apart.  To give you an idea of size my tattoo is on my left shoulder blade about 6 inches tall and 3 wide and in color. Black and red ink removes the easiest. Blue, yellow and white are the hardest to remove.

     

    Soooo, my suggest is if you have years of time and a few thousand dollars get it removed :) I love tattoos, it is sort of my thing. I have many other, it was just this one was my first and I hattttte it. I am always an advocate to get a tattoo, if it were me which I am in the same boat I'd get it covered.

     

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