- 6 years ago
- Wedding: August 2012
So at work the hierarchy goes as follows:
3 Assistant Directors
I am one of the 5 coordinators. I was planning on inviting all of the coordinators to my wedding because I consider all of them friends and have actually hung out with them outside of work. I really dislike 2 of the Assistant Directors – one of them says terrible things behind people’s back and has talked a lot of unprofessional things about me and the other I only know in a work capacity. Same goes for my director.
Long story short, my director basically invited herself to my wedding. I walked into work the other day and she was like “It is coming soon!” and I was like What? And she goes “Your Wedding” and I was like “Oh Yeah…” And then she proceeded to tell me that she had a lot of things going on in August… My wedding and then some other event.
I haven’t even given her an invite! I never said I was inviting her! So now, it is either be awkward and tell her she isn’t invited or just suck it up and invite her. But if I invite her, then I feel like i have to invite the 1 assistant director I actually like. Which means, I will then have to invite the other two by default.
What would you do? I’m so torn. Argh. I looked at my guest list and we estimated for 120 people to come and right now we are at about 100 with only a few more in question… so we would have the room…