(Closed) Crazy “baby mama” Drama !

posted 7 years ago in Relationships
Post # 3
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: April 2010

Yikes!

She’s harassing you, plain and simple.  Does your husband have a formal custody arrangement? 

Post # 4
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5978 posts
Bee Keeper

Through the courts! Seriously – he needs a better custody arrangement. She won’t be able to not “let” him see his children, she’ll be court mandated to allow him to see his children! You have to be prepared though to really fight for partial custody if not full custody. As long as you are both serious about it, go for it.

Post # 7
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2010

Having dealt with crazies before myself, just know that this has nothing to do with you.  It is all about her (and always will be all about her). Repeat this to yourself whenever she is driving you nuts.

Support your husband and continue to be sympathetic to him while he is putting up with her crap. Act as a team and nothing she does will tear you two apart. Plus, it will drive her crazy.

As far as the kids go, if you do become part of their lives, resist the urge to badmouth their mom. It will be hard, but it’s better overall that you not play into her games and be the bigger person. Also, as much as she sucks, she is their mom and certain milestones/occasions are meant for her (ie- mother’s day, some holidays, etc.) so don’t try to take that away from her.

Good luck and yes, definately seek a different custody arrangement through the courts if possible.

 

Post # 8
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Newbee
  • Wedding: September 2011

Oh my goodness, sounds like my situation.  My FI baby mama is just as crazy.  She tells my FI 5-yr-old daughter that we can’t look through her backpack when we get her from school because we are not her “mother.”  lol… We have been back and forth to the courts too.  She has dumb complaints about us everytime we go to court.  My favorite is that I took “HER DAUGHTER” to get her nails painted and she doesn’t allow that.  About a month after that, his daughter came over with her nails painted.  Ha ha. These women are crazy.  Now questions to you that are married, could the baby mama get more money from child support since you guys are married now?

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