(Closed) crazy bridesmaid read !!!!

posted 7 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
246 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

I would definitely NOT have someone as my bm out of fear! You should have people you love and who love you in your wedding party, not someone who’s going to speak badly of you no matter what you do.

Post # 4
375 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: July 2010

Agree! You dont have to have her be a Bridesmaid or Best Man. Having her out of guilt is the wrong reason someone should be a Bridesmaid or Best Man. I know its easier said than done….but if she is going to talk smack regardless. The last thing you need is her being a part of your wedding and making things difficult. if she is not in it than at least its a little more out of “your hair”

Post # 5
325 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

i went thru this with my moh! her boyfriend is also in the wedding too. long story short she’s no longer in the wedding.  her boyfriend is though.  you need to do what you think will be best! you i agree with everyone else…have her as your moh or bm because you are truley friends!! you don’t need a backstabber as a friend or in your wedding. best of luck!

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