(Closed) Crazy Ex Issues- Or am I the crazy one?

posted 5 years ago in Relationships
Post # 3
9618 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: April 2019

That is very weird, unless he is very close friends with your family, I would say HELL NO!

Post # 4
1368 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: March 2013

thats weird for sure. i think you’re right. 

Post # 5
4496 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

That is really bizarre. I’ve never heard of anyone doing this… You definitely aren’t the crazy one.

Post # 6
360 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: March 2012

weird and psychotic

Post # 7
7776 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

@ArmyBeee:  Woah. Yes, that is crazy and weird. (Your ex, not you). I’d try as hard as possible not to think about it too much. You can’t reason with crazy.

So long as your family doesn’t entertain his craziness (and it sounds like they aren’t), there shouldn’t be any problems.

Post # 10
9618 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: April 2019

@ArmyBeee:  Yeah it is definitely still weird, even if he is close with your family. I would be pissed off if Fiance wanted me to meet his ex’s family!!!!

Post # 11
1459 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: July 2017 - Bristol zoo

Wow, this guy is crazy city! All he’s doing is proving that he is super not over you :/ I feel bad for the new girl. at least your mum gets it XD

Post # 13
1573 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2013

Weird weird WEIRD. And NOT OK!!! Unless your ex was friends with your brother or another member of your family before he started dating you, this is definitely strange, and yes, does seem like he’s trying to show you what a good thing he has now, by word of mouth.

If your family respects you, they will tell your ex, thanks but no thanks. Glad to hear you are happy, but we do not need to see you and meet your new lady.

I’d love to know what this new Girlfriend thinks about this. What guy brings his new girl to meet his EX girls family?  Red flag!

Post # 14
2376 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: June 2014

Hey, at least you know you dodged a bullet with THAT one.  It’s not normal behavior, and I understand that he was close to your family for years and it’s hard to cut those ties, but it has to be done.  Your mom has the right idea, just tell him “that’s nice that you’re seeing someone, I’m sure she’s a lovely woman” and find an exucse to get off the phone/run errands/whatever.  He wants a reaction, and when he doesn’t get one, he’ll stop.

Post # 15
11234 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: August 2013

That is really effing weird. Breakups mean you break up with that person’s friends and family, too. I feel bad for this new girl, seeing as he’s trying to drag her to see his EX’S FAMILY and obviously just say, “Haha, yeah, I’m great, you guys! Look at my new girlfriend! I know your daughter broke up with me, but I’m dating someone now!” How sad.

Post # 16
989 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

Weird and inappropriate.  I keep in very casual contact with my brother’s ex-GF (we actually went to high school together and were friends outside of bro’s relationship with her) but it’s all done very quietly and I DO NOT bring her around my family or discuss her with my brother or SIL.

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