Post # 1
I’m going to be very vague with my situation because i truely think my mother in law to be would sign up for one of these websites and find out that i am writing about her. I know i sound crazy but she is that pshyco.
So is anyone’s mother in law acting like this wedding is all about them? Calling you names? What should i do. They have the ability to cancel my venue and i have already sent out invites!
I’m so tired of the drama and the tears i just want to elope!
Is anyone having trouble with their in laws to be?
Post # 3
wow sorry to hear your having a hard time.. what is her reason for calling you names? I personally dont have in-law drama but i’ve heard enough horror stories to know a thing or too about how psycho some can be
Post # 4
I’m getting mutiple emails of her going off on me because i want addresses for my fiance’s side of the wedding. She yells at me in the emails and then tells me how bad her life is. She even told me that me not talking to her is fueling her anger towards me. Thank G-d my fiance is on my side but i’m really scared that if i don’t talk to her until my wedding day she is going to ruin my wedding day.
Post # 5
I’m so sorry. Perhaps she has a chemical imbalance? Well as for needing addresses, I don’t know why she’d go off on you. Perhaps your Fiance can ask for them. Or maybe there is a symapthetic member of his family (ie aunt) you can go to.
If you feel like not talking to her makes it worse, perhaps you and Fi can talk to her together on speaker phone. That way you can chat, and she’ll know that if she’s out of line Fiance will hear and speak up. You could also try to give her fairly brief calls, just chit chatting (no wedding talk -that is apparently stressing her out).
Post # 6
Eeeek she sound horrible! Sorry you have to go through this );
Post # 7
She told me she does not want to speak to me anymore.
But she keeps sending me emails telling me she is done with the wedding. They originally offerend to pay for certain things in the wedding and now i am telling them i don’t want there help. It is causing to much stress on me. I’m planning the whole wedding with out any help and me and my Fiance are paying for every penny now.
Why can’t my Fiance have a normal family?
I’m afraid this is going to stir up problems for the rest of our lives ie. kids.
My worst fear is a divorce and i thought i had scene mostly everything. And then this comes along i never new a mother could act like a child. She even took me off of her facebook. I think she thinks i’m taking her son away from her because she is very controling but now she is being really mean to me when i have done nothing wrong.
Post # 8
Grrr. My future mother in law is crazy too. SHe has said she’s not going to the wedding. Now she’s saying she is. Mad we’re going on a honeymoon since they’re traveling to the wedding she felt like we should spend the week after with her. Complaining about the formality. She complains about anything she can. Ugh. I feel your pain.
Post # 9
Why can she cancel your venue? Is she paying? Are you paying? If she is I would find a way to pay for it myself, that way you have control. As for the addresses have fi tell her, either give them to US or they wont be able to come.