- 6 years ago
- Wedding: August 2012
My mom is absolutely delusional… As it stands FI and I can’t even scrape up money to get to our wedding let alone pay the dj, and photographer as was agreed upone with my parents… After I told them this, my father calls the next day and says “I put the deposit down on the church now all you have to pay is the minister and sound person… let’s tack another 250 bucks on to the tab I can’t pay… FI and I are trying to figure that out….
now the new developments… FMIL wanted to buy us some travel system for our impending delivery in December, which is absolutely lovely… but I need to worry about the wedding… since I told her not to buy it she’s all butt hurt over it and handing FI a guilt trip… during which she tells him my mother (and her infinite crazy) has asked her if she’s “buying us a house, because she would if she could” and my mom is also hinting around at other expensive things for the wedding… like open bar and a effing champagne fountain FYI I am preggers… can’t drink anyway….. Meanwhile we can’t even afford to get there or have pictures or a photographer…
I’m sick to my stomach, and can’t sleep. I can’t please anyone… And I can’t afford to attend my own wedding…. I’m just disgusted the inappropriate behavior of my mom… and the fmil … (this catholic mom guilt trip thing is going to get real old real quick)
I’m in tears, this wedding is going to be an absolute trainwreck… I may not even make it to see…