(Closed) Crazy psychic woman and now….

posted 5 years ago in Babies
Post # 3
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

If your mom is really happy with this woman, I don’t know that you can get her to stop spending the money.  Maybe share some info with her about other opportunites to explore meditation etc that don’t cost money if you can find some.  For the baby stuff I would say something like “Mom I know you’re excited about the possibility of grandkids, but I’m not pregnant yet.  I’m really looking forward to telling you when I am and sharing all kinds of baby-experiences then.  I’d really appreciate it if we can save most of this until I get pregnant. I really want those moments to be special and exciting and wonderful, and I kind of feel like getting all excited now is going to take away from when it actually happens.”  I hope things work out for you both!

Post # 5
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2013

Good lord. That woman is invasive. Your reproductive decisions are between you and your FI. Her “psychic” abilities have no place in your personal life. Or your mom’s wallet, for that matter, but I think nikkialys is right, that relationship isn’t going to weaken anytime soon.

@nikkialys: “Mom I know you’re excited about the possibility of grandkids, but I’m not pregnant yet.  I’m really looking forward to telling you when I am and sharing all kinds of baby-experiences then.  I’d really appreciate it if we can save most of this until I get pregnant. I really want those moments to be special and exciting and wonderful, and I kind of feel like getting all excited now is going to take away from when it actually happens.”

+1. Perfect way to get mom to stop without upsetting her.

Post # 6
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

If she’s working for cash, send her details to the ATO 😀

Post # 7
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: April 2018

@Ang3lfir3:  LOL wow. Just wow.

You know how best to handle this? DO NOT GET PREGNANT. Haha. Seriously… double up on BC, pull out, whatever you gotta do.

Maybe in a couple of years after your hubs has gotten his vasectomy and you are still baby-free, your mom will consider different meditation classes.

Post # 8
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: April 2013

I would definitely second what Vikstar said – dob her into the ATO and it can be done anonymously

Post # 10
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: April 2013

I think you might be able to just give the address she is operating the business out of or has she every advertised?

Post # 12
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: April 2013

I’d still give them a call just saying that there is a commercial business operating out of the premises and the times she operates – maybe they can pop out there and pay her a visit.  She does sound very dodgy.

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