Post # 1
My wife’s co-worker confessed that she has been killing herself in the gym because if she gains a weight even a little, her husband would leave her because it was on their pre-nuptial agreement to be in always in shape.. (Her husband left his first wife of 4 years because she gained weight after giving birth).. LOL.. I think this is just crazy.. just crazy! Its like whats with the world crazy! 🙂
Now, do you guys have any pre-nuptial agreements? Would this be important? If so, do you have any strict specifics such as this? Or is it just crazy stupid? -Ian
Post # 3
I’m all for remaining attractive (as much as one feasibly can) to your spouse…but that is ridiculous and sad. It’s one thing to encourage each other to work out and be healthy and stay in shape, it’s another for it to be required or else a divorce is issued. Sad =(
Post # 4
omg.. that is freakin insane! wtf.. she’s crazy for even agreeing to that. Heck no we don’t have any pre-nuptial agreements, and if we did that would ssooo not be one of them! How sad, I know this co-worker who doesn’t have any children b/c her husband didn’t want her to gain weight or for her body to change! ppsshhh pa lease!
Post # 5
- Wedding: January 2011 - Vintage Villas
What!!!??! That’s so insane! I agree with ejs – I do think it’s important to try to remain attractive for your spouse – you don’t want to let go completely…but a DIVORCE? Over a little weight?? Nuts!
Post # 6
- Wedding: July 2010 - The Tower Club
I agree. He’s crazy, but she’s CRAZIER. Can you imagine the state of mind a woman would have to be in to accept these types of “terms” for a relationship? I think it’s sad.
Post # 7
My FI and I don’t plan on having a pre-nup, but if we did…weight certainly wouldn’t be in it (particularly since I am already plus-sized).
I think Oprah had a show about this one time..pre-nups and some of the crazy stuff that couples included in them. I wonder if the husband has to stay in shape as well. I wouldn’t waste the legal fee on this type of stuff…infidelity….yes…abuse…yes…some weight?? heck no!!