Crazy Waiting Lady

posted 3 years ago in Waiting
Post # 3
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1343 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2017

@nber0815:  Sorry to hear that this happened!  First, I’m glad to know your SO’s uncle is okay.  How scary!  But I can totally relate to you on the 1 step forward, 2 steps back thing.  My SO is the same way (though he is really like 1 step forward, 5 steps back) and it can be tough.  I think the only thing you can do is let him be for now.  He wanted to propose and he had a plan, but it was unfortunately interrupted by unforeseen circumstances.  I would guess he will want to try to come up with another surprise place to do the proposal, since he was so focused on the vacation proposal.  And, until he does, you may be waiting a little bit longer than you’d like.  I say, keep your chin up – the proposal is coming!

Post # 4
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1670 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2014

He might really be into the “moment” of it. That is so exciting! Let him do his thing!

I’m getting a formal proposal this christmas, after I meet his parents. Please note – FI and I have booked a venue. I’ve bought a dress. We signed with a photographer. We have a guest list. We are engaged.

He has himself WILD about the perfect way to do it. And he’s nervous about it. What does he think, that I’m going to say no? 

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