(Closed) Cried again today – this time the church

posted 5 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
2705 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

Yikes!  That is a mess – I’m so sorry. 

I think you can ask the couple if they’d be willing to work with you and move their rehearsal.  There’s no harm in asking.  However, if they say no, I’d leave it alone.  It’s not their fault either the church double booked you and since they were there first, I do think they should get priority.  Imagine being the other bride and being told that the church booked another wedding so now you have to move your rehearsal around to accomodate the second couple.  I would not be happy.

Post # 4
4496 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

Did you move your ceremony for this same particular couple? If so, then I think its only fair that they change their rehearsal. In the end you guys still, IMO, had the bigger inconvenience with changing your actual wedding ceremony. That is crazy though, what is wrong with this church?! No organization.

I do have to say that having your reception in the dinosaur hall sounds awesome!! I saw a picture of a reception that was held in a museum and it was FABULOUS. So jealous!!

Post # 5
2565 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: October 2014

I think you should work with the church directly for getting rehersal time.  Can you do it two nights before instead of the night before?  I don’t think asking the couple to move their rehersal is appropriate, they booked first so it is not their fault the church double booked the day and you had to move your ceremony earlier.

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