Post # 1
It breaks my heart to do this but….
SO broke it off with me 7 weeks ago now. He actually has a new girlfriend who he has been with 4 weeks now and is Facebook official with and I think that is the last straw in making me realise there’s still some folk out there that I needed to tell.
So, I’m ducking out of the list. It’s tough for me because we were together for 9 years, he gave me a beautiful half-proposal (that’s what he called it cos he didn’t have a ring) last New Year, we went and got my hand measured in January, we had a venue and loads of plans…. and most importantly of all, we loved each other for all that time, since I was jut 14 years old.
Now, onwards to new things I go. Thanks for the support over the past 2-3 years as I’ve been waiting. I hope that great things come to all of you.
And hey, don’t be too sad for me – at least it means you (mostly) all get to move one more spot up the list! 😉
Lots of love,
Post # 3
Aww I’m sorry to hear it didn’t work out after that time together but it sounds like you’ve got the right perspective on it and you’re going to find the right one for you. Best of luck!
Post # 4
Good luck with finding the right one for you. He’s out there! Hugs!!
Post # 5
Im so sorry. Breaking up is the worst. Take the time to heal into your best self. Learn who you want to be and what type of guy you want to be with. Let all your pain help you grow!
Youll be grateful for this down the line when you meet your husband. Your ex sounds more than a little immature and insensitive- from proposal to break up and weeks later to GF publicly? You dodged a bullet.
Post # 6
@VickyAurea: Sorry about this. You seem to be a very strong woman though. I hope your journey gets better from here on out. I’m sure you will rejoin the list in the future. Best wishes.
Post # 7
To those who have replied so far saying I’ll find the guy/husband for me, just to say, I like guys and girls, so I don’t want to jump to any conclusions and say that the right person for me will be a guy. We shall just see where life takes me.
Thank you for the support and concern, as ever.
Post # 8
Good luck! You will find a wonderful person who loves you and treats you as you deserve to be treated. I’m so very sorry this happened, but I am thinking of you.
Post # 9
I’m sorry for the heartbreak you’ve been through. The last few months must have been very painful. I won’t wish you a new lover, probably too soon. But I will wish you peace for your heart and calmness for your soul.
Post # 10
@VickyAurea: 🙁 Hugs to you. I’m sorry this had to happen, but from the looks of it, you are a very strong person. I only wish you the best on this new journey! You have us bees for support!
Post # 11
@SomedaymrsWDS: That’s beautiful, thank you.
Post # 12
@VickyAurea: I’m so sorry! I dont think I could even come back to this site to write that, so you seem like you’re facing it pretty well.
You’ll find your right person!
Post # 13
@VickyAurea: I know right after my ex and I broke up (after being in a long term relationship) it would upset me when people told me I’d find someone better soon / I could do way better / I’m better off. I knew they meant well, but it was the last thing on my mind. I was just trying to figure out who I am as a human being without this person in my life. Just taking it one day at a time.
So, instead I prefer to say..I.wish that life takes you to wonderful places…solo or with someone, just as long as you’re happy.
Best of luck on your journey.
Post # 14
@VickyAurea: I know you must be hurting now, but things will get better! Have fun being single, spend lots of time with your friends, and keep busy. you sound pretty tough and I have no doubt you will get through this with flying colors.
Post # 15
@VickyAurea: OH MY GOODNESS!!
I’m so sorry to hear about this…I hope you are doing okay. I wish you the best..
Stay strong and hang in there!
Post # 16
((Hugs)) Sending you lots of love & virtual hugs!