- 5 years ago
- Wedding: May 2015
Is it ever OK to have crushes when you are in a serious relationship/married? Or does it mean that you are not as loving/committed as you should be to your SO?
What if you want to be friends with someone you just met because you find them intellectually interesting, but you initially noticed them because you find them very physically attractive?
What do you do when said person appears to flirt with you a LOT when tipsy (out with a bunch of new friends at a bar)?
I’m really inexperienced with different men actually being interested in me, and find it very hard to tell if someone is flirting or is just being friendly and pleasant and gentlemanly. Any clues/tips in this regard??
Ugh. . . I just moved away from my dear, handsome, hot SO to go to grad school. We will see each other almost weekly, so it’s def. not like we are “taking a break” or anything. Encountering weirdness already. 🙁
My mom says she certainly has had crushes while married to my dad (they are still married and are very right for & happy with each other, and have always been faithful). I’ve had some small crushes while with my SO, despite being super serious about and very much in love with him. I just feel uncomfortable and confused about the whole subject. Sorry I sound so scattered. Help!