Post # 1
So my faince proposed in may and i do love my ring.
He commented it was not my real ring, its not the speical one and he was having another ring made with his grandmothers daimonds… I was overly touched his mother offered them.
I love my ring, he made jabs about it though teasing me about if i was sure i didnt need the upgrade yet.
Now here is the thing, he has me soooo curious he had talked about designing it for me, and just has be totally wondering. I find my mind going over what it might be so much … now at 1st i thought i was getting it right away its now been well 5 months, and i dieing to see this other ring
he stopped talking about it he used to tease me about it all the time but for like 2 months he has not. I guessing it might be my xmas gift
am i totally horrible for wanting to see it like asap wanting to have it. I have a beautiful ring i love and had i never been told about this designed for me family keepsake ring… i would not dream of another ring (well maybe a pear halo) but anywyas
am i bad for being so curious and wishing he give it to me so i can see what its like, also my aunt just got out form africa and i love ot show her
Post # 3
@Kissed_by_lightning: No your not bad for wondering! He was teasing you about it for so long he should assume you are on your toes waiting for it – that’s his fault! 😛
When you get it do show us pics of the two rings! I hope its as amazing as you’re dreaming of!
Post # 4
After 50+ years on this planet… I would have to say “in general terms” that most men are really bad at the Gifting thing
I would guess that any of the following has happened:
1- He’s forgotten about it
2- Found out that what he envisioned wasn’t as EASY as he assumed it would be to do
3- He’s planning a BIG Surprise, and so has stopped talking about it, in hopes that you’d forget (lol, too many Men don’t realize that women are the “Gatherers” by nature, that we don’t forget details. EVER)
Personally, I suppose you could ask… and see what he has to say.
But be aware if it is a SURPRISE GIFT… for Christmas – Valentines – or other “meaninful occasion”… then he isn’t going to say much / change the subject (or he’s embarrassed by not having the plan work out for him).
Hope this helps,
Post # 5
@FutureMrsHallam: Ya i not normally big on stuff so its super odd for me to be like i want it (even if i am only saying that to myself lol) he did a good job of getting me all hyped about it though i guess
once i get it i will i suck at taking pics of my ring lol i think its cuz i use my cell phone its all way pixley or if its the just the hand u can see the refection of gems in my cell case on it lol it looks werid them (or i hate how my fingers look i think post manni lol)
but ya i def will post i just like so curious to see what he get made for me ike he is really detail minded and he has great taste and i like super curious of what he like get made lol no one has ever got something made for me b4
@This Time Round:
I hope he didn’t forget lol, i think the hoping if he does not talk i will forget might be it lol …. but omg just thinking he is makign me something has me itching to see it … i didnt even think of Vday it might be that too … i will wait i sure sooner or later i will get it i just so curious i feel silly thinking about it as much as i do