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    FutureMuniz    December 7, 2012   Henderson, Nevada

    So living in Vegas I always get newlyweds here for their honeymoon. I dont see the point but whatever. lol My thing though was they were FIGHTING , bad! lol  

     

    This makes me curious for all the married bees.  Did any of you fight while on your honeymoon? May it be for a quick 5 mins to a whole day(s).  Did you or not? 

     

    Share please! :)

     
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    jbridea    December 2012  

    i havent been on my honeymoon yet, but hopefully we dont fight on it!

     
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    FutureMuniz    December 7, 2012   Henderson, Nevada

    @jbridea:  Yah we haven't either, we will be very soon! lol But i hope we don't either , i doubt we will. :) We never fought on any of our trips so why start, right! :))

     
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    tksjewelry    June 25, 2011   Omaha

    We did really do our honeymoon, but we never fight in public, ever.  Just makes our business the worlds business and that is not something we are comfortable with.  We keep personal issues at home with our own four walls. 

     
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    KCKnd2    September 29, 2012  

    We did not fight. DH nursed me through a bout of food poisoning, and then I accompanied him to his grandmother's funeral ... but there was no fighting.

     
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    JKaitlin    October 13, 2012   Texas

    My husband and I have never fought. During the honeymoon, I got slightly mad because I wanted to see the Magic Kingdom castle light up at night for more pictures, but we ended up going to see a different show that ended up being better than something we had both already saw in the past. So, no biggy. 

     
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    FutureMuniz    December 7, 2012   Henderson, Nevada

    @KCKnd2:  GOOD :)) I am happy when other couples don't fight ! :)) hehe especially on trips!! :))

     
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    pengoala    September 4, 2011  

    We didn't fight on our honeymoon at all! But all that being said, as soon as we got home, and started moving into our house, we had all kinds of fights! :P  But we're still doing great, so it's all good. :)

     
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    Sunfire    September 2012   US

    No way, we were blissfully happy, nothing to fight about!

     
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    LGenz    May 21, 2011   New Jersey

    We didn't fight fight but I think we got lost one day and were snippy with eachother for like 20 minutes.

     
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    lovekiss    October 9, 2011   Maryland

    We didn't take a honeymoon, so I can't really answer the question.

    But I will offer up that I think many couples are dealing with the significant emotional aftermath of the wedding, and sometimes they can take that emotional stress out of each other. Some times that stress and emotional overload manifests as a good ole' cry fest and other times it manifests as a screaming match. It is what it is. Weddings are HUGE emotional events, and sometimes the implications of them can get the best of you (collective, not singular "you").

     
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    jo.lee    September 10, 2011  

    We were really stressed and a bit snippy on the car ride because a major bridge was out and we had no idea, so we had to navigate around it. Luckily we were good by the time we made it to our destination, though!

     
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    HappilyEverAfter54    June 23, 2012   Central Pennsylvania

    We didn't fight once... but we never really fight. I think in the 3 years we've known each other we've sorta fought twice where we just got kind of quiet with each other. Our honeymoon was a totally new experience for us though, our first cruise! We were far too excited and in awe to argue about anything.

     
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    baletrina    May 27, 2012   Chicago, Illinois

    @LGenz:  @jo.lee:  All because of directions!   We spent 14 days in Paris/London and on day 10(after being with just each other and having no one else to talk to, I speak very little French and DH speaks none)we got lost and got in a fight.  I hate being lost!    

    That being said I think it's healthy to argue with your spouse.  If there was never conflict I would find that stranger than anything!

     
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    mypinkshoes    April 28, 2012   mexico/ontario

    nope, no fighting on our honeymoon.  not even a disagreement.

    we so rarely fight anyways.

     
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    amoret11    November 6, 2010  

    I think I was a little upset about something for like 5 minutes but I don't remember what so it must have been the room's termostat temperature or something silly like that.

     
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    iheartnerds    October 9, 2011   Massachusetts

    We often bicker when on vacation, over dumb things like deciding what to do on a given day, or getting lost when driving somewhere new. But I don't recall any major disagreements on our honeymoon.

     
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    Pomapoo    May 6, 2011   Maryland

    I voted "No" because the only thing we "fought" about on our honeymoon was just disagreeing on whether to go to the beach or the pool... Tough decisions!

     
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    BuffaloDots    July 5, 2011  

    We did fight and we aren't even fighters!

    Our big fight on our honeymoon was over money. We had none lol. We went to Germany first and literally had no Euros yet and didn't realize that restaurants wouldn't take credit cards. (Isn't Visa everywhere you want it to be? lol). I've spent a lot of time overseas, but thought that Europe had finally allowed credit cards everywhere like the US. Anyways, we ate and had no way to pay...

    But overall we felt like lovebirds on our honeymoon!! And our minimoon!

     
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    doxielove    August 2011  

    We never went on a true honeymoon, but we did go to Vegas for our 1 year anniversary.  We had a teeny tiny spat when we were there.  He wanted to keep walking around and sight see, but I was sore and wanted to go back to our hotel room.  I'd had a root canal the day before we flew out so my mouth was very sore and I was in need of my meds!!  Our "fight" lasted maybe 60 seconds.  Probably more of a disagreement than a fight, though :-)

     
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    rosworms    October 10, 2012   St. Paul, MN

    We did fight one day.

    We honeymooned where we got married... Disney World.

    It was incredibly hot and we'd been running around all day. I was exhausted and he was in need of a cigarette break. He wanted to go back to the last smoke spot we passed and I refused to backtrack because it would just add more walking.

    It was stupid and I won. While he was smoking, I got us both some water and a Dole Whip to cool down our core temperatures and we were both a lot less snappy after that.

     
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    anemonie    October 13, 2012   Ohio

    We had a brief fight because we went to the casino, and we lost I think around $250. My husband was grumpy because of losing, so we had a tiff about it because I wanted him to stop being such a grouch and spoiling the rest of our evening plans.

     
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    redheadem    September 30, 2012   NYC/MD

    I mean, if you're including a 5 minute fight, of course we fought. We went to the airport twice, after all! That alone raises my blood pressure and puts me on edge.

    If you're asking if we had a fist fight or something, I'd say no.

     
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    Gemstone    July 2011  

    No fights here, thank goodness!

     
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    JaneDomani    October 6, 2012  

    We were on our honeymoon for a week. And yes we did have one sort of fight. I wanted to come up with a plan for when we got back on what to do about his relatives who had decided to get us TREES as a wedding present.

    We live in the city. We have a very tiny yard. These gift trees are fast growing and reach between 100-150 feet. We have have had two hurricanes come through in the past year. One blew over one of our trees that was probably about 30 feet. It could have hit our house but luckily went the other way. Otherwise it would have crushed our little rancher.

    One of the gift trees was a willow which roots grow out and not down and they are known for wrecking water pipes. It probably would have destroyed our piping and the two houses right next to us. Worst wedding gift EVER. I'm sure if you live in the country and you have a LOT of land two trees would be cute to get, but not where we live.

    So I wanted to know how to deal with it- and he didn't want to talk about it- basically he wanted to talk to his Dad first and try to figure out who was actually buying the trees then go from there- but I am a planner and I was really afraid of these stupid trees showing up on my doorstep. I mean you can't hide those in the attic! And the worse part was is we didn't know if they were sending us trees that were already 30 feet or little starter trees.

    I don't think it would have been a fight at all if he had been willing to talk about it. It was more of a 20 minute grumble grumble. I think it also happened because we were tired. It was late in the day. And we had been swimming for the past two days so we were extra tired.

    Left over wedding stress/nerves is probably really common on Honeymoons.

     
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    Rubbs    July 2012  

    Nope,,, it's so nice being in a relationship where there is no fighting Smile.

     
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    Shelby81    June 16, 2012  

    No fighting per say but I'm pregnant so at times a little hormonal and snappy. ;P

     
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    mnp    September 29, 2012  

    We didn't fight.  There was some annoyances but no arguing/fighting. 

     
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    Kjeff760    September 13, 2012   Littleton, Colorado

    @rosworms:  Dole Whip always makes everything better lol

     
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    SportsGal    August 11, 2012   Vancouver, BC

    We didn't fight during our honeymoon at all.  We were gone for 3 weeks together, around 24/7 with each other..  We might have had a few very minor spat/stress at times (like when the GPS wasn't working and we didn't know our way around the City for driving).  Otherwise everything was planned out and went smoothly.  We had an awesome time :)

     
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    o0olibelulao0o    April 14, 2012   Texas Hill Country

    My husband and I hardly ever fight, so our odds of fighting on our honeymoon were very low anyway (we didn't), however, I have noticed that we haven't ever gotten in a fight while we weren't at home (i.e. vacation, visiting family etc.).  That said, we went to vegas with two other couples and both of those couples (one was engaged, the others just dating) fought and broke up during our Vegas trip... the engaged couple ended up working things out... But I think it has something to do with Vegas. lol

     
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    SapphireSun    July 2010   BC, Canada

    I voted that we fought.  We don't have full out screaming matches, alone or in public, but we did have a few minor disagreements.  We went to our wedding, got up the next morning for a brunch, and then took a red eye flight to our honeymoon, so we'd had about 4 hours sleep in two days and were tired and short tempered. 

    Then we got lost in the airport and couldn't find our shuttle to our hotel, and there were definitely harsh whispers being exchanged about who didn't print the airport map or the phone number for the shuttle, and whether we should turn our data plan in a foreign country at 16 bucks per MB or something ridiculous to look at the email again...

     
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    dreamocracy    June 4, 2011   EDD June 12, 2013

    We did.. he gets mad over little things and didn't want to do some of the romantic things I wanted to do :/ they were only a couple 15min arguments, but I was really upset. He always ends up fighting with me when I plan something romantic.. Overall, we had a good honeymoon though when he lightened up.

     
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    chasesgirl    December 31, 2011  

    Not in a way that anyone else would have known but I was ready to murder my brand new husband because he didn't bring his credit card on our once ib a lifetime intentional honeymoon. Mine was still a student card with a low limit so beyond food we had NO spending money. I didn't get most the things I wanted but it turned out okay anyway. 

     
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    ConRtist    July 6, 2012   Gold Coast, Australia

    We didn't fight on our honeymoon, but then we don't fight much anyway.

    My husband did get a little annoyed at me when we got lost in Tokyo but then decided to come up with a really random/cute song about being lost while we were wandering around which helped me be less stressed out and made us both laugh it off haha

     
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    We didn't fight on our honeymoon but we sure did fight in Las Vegas. I blame temps over 100 degrees F for that. Maybe that is what's making those honeymooners you see fight so much.

     
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    Mrsluckywife    July 17, 2011  

    No we didn't. But we don't really fight anyway. If we disagree on an issue we tend to just talk it through and if one of us doesn't get our way it's usually because the other decision made the most sense to us both..i dunno..we just get on extremely well in that sense..we cuddle a lot instead!! :)

     
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    Petite_Fraise    October 21, 2012  

    We didn't fight. But then again, we rarely ever fight.

     
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    cbee    July 26, 2010  

    I think it depends.  Not really, I don't think we did, then again, travel is stressful, so it would be possible to overhear someone being tired or grouchy- that might have happened to us.  But not fighting about some big issue, no.  And, Vegas is stressful!  Yuck!  I would not want to go there with crowds of people, that probably would make me grouchy.  I think of honeymoon as a place to get away.

     
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    CuriousOne    September 21, 2012  

    no, we're not really the fighing type.  just relaxation and happiness.

     

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