- 6 years ago
I’m not one to unecessarily get my hopes up, especially after 22 years of living with a mom who talked more than she ever walked… if that makes sense. That being said, SO has been acting strange lately. I can’t tell if it’s just because I was away on vacation for a week and he really, really, really, really missed me OR if he’s just excited for our upcoming anniversary OR if he has something a little extra planned for 15 days from now when we’re spending the weekend isolated in the woods.
I’m going to try to lay this out as logically as I can and hopefully you wonderful bees can help me sort out what seems, i don’t know, “most likely”. Okay for starters SO has been VERY affectionate and at first I thought it was because I had been away for a week but that was 2 weeks ago. We live together so we see each other every day and he has been want to snuggle, wanting to hold my hand, kissing me, etc. every day like he’s never tired of me!
I’m not complaining, I LOVE IT! I’m a super affectionate person so I am just feeling all lovey dovey and that mushy gooshy stuff haha 😛 Then starting just a day or two ago, I posted about the once incident previously, he has been a lot more open to refering to himself as “my future husband” or “the person you’re going to spend your life with” and also he had to call customer service for something for me and referred to himself as my “fiancé” which he said was to sound more legitimate than just boyfriend.
So that’s been happening. Now back in time.
Months ago like back around christmas time i think maybe even earlier I sent SO an e-mail with this necklace that he had gotten me in sweeden when we first became bf & gf and i had lost it (i still feel so terrible about it) . I scoured the internet and finally found this obscure site that still had this necklace in stock even though it was from almost 2 years ago! I felt silly buying it formyself so i sent SO the link saying if you ever need a gift idea, better snag it before it’s gone though or something along those lines. Later I was in his car and he has an iphone and i was switching the music when an alert popped up to remind him “order necklace” so i found out by accident that he did get the necklace (such a sweetheart!) and has it in his possesion. This i just assumed would be my 3 year anniversary gift.
Now back to the present.
SO randomly tells me he already has 2 gifts for me for my birthday. Hm… curiouser… because I know one of the gifts is a t-shirt of my favorite band (he has his notes synced to the iphone, ipad, and laptop which is always in the open and he has a note of what one of the gifts is, so he’s a dork for not hiding it.. AT ALL it even says b-day gift on it hahah no obscurity). So what is this second gift…. I of course start asking for hints and he says “no because they’re semi-guessable based on the fact that you’ve asked for them in the past/hinted at them and i’ve taken good boyfriend notes :)” Okay so that means that gift #2 is the necklace!
So now what could be planned for our anniversary?! We just only started looking at rings 2 weeks ago and I highly, HIGHLY doubt any ring could’ve been done and in his hands because I’m also certain he hasn’t ordered anything yet. I could be wrong I guess but with how he doesn’t even attempt to hide other things like birthday gift notes makes me think if he ordered anything i’d find out probably by accident too because he just leaves his stuff always up and open.
Right now i’m personally expecting the proposal to be not even a possibility until around christmas time but maybe i’m wrong or maybe i’m just letting coincidence and affectionate behavior get the best of me…
Thoughts bees? Also if any of this doesn’t make sense I apologize!