- 5 years ago
- Wedding: May 2014
Ok, so to keep this post short I asked a very close friend of mine to be my MOH. About 2 months after we had a huge falling out and I cut her from the bridal party, as I wasn’t sure we would get past our issues.
Turns out we got past them so I asked her if she would accept a lower role (as I had asked my bestie to be my MOH) to which she responded with “I don’t know if I can afford the dress (which we haven’t even gone looking for) and what if I am pregnant?”
I told her that we could arrange a time to talk about it, but it would be fine. We arranged the time and I went to her place to talk to her. She had a friend over!! I was so pissed off becuase she knew why I was coming over!
Anyhow I let that go, but everytime i tried to talk to her about it she either didn’t have time and had to go home, or something else. I decided if she can’t make the effort why should I??
I cut her from my bridal party again after we had another huge arguement where she told me that I told her she wasn’t allowed to be pregnant at my wedding! (I would NEVER say that!). I was so upset by this arguement I called my FI and MOH and cried my heart out. My FI has told me he doesn’t want her at the wedding anymore becuase of how much she has hurt me. I didn’t say anything.
So after all this, I posted a status of facebook and tagged my bridal party. She asked me why I didn’t tag her. I didn’t respond. Now she won’t talk to me and I am needing your advice! Please HELP!
Should I keep her invited to the wedding or should I just call it quits?