(Closed) Cute or cheesy?

posted 6 years ago in Ceremony
Post # 3
8359 posts
Bumble Beekeeper

I think it is cute and meaningful and even if some guests don’t get it the fact that it has significance to you and your Fiance is what matters since these are your vows to each other.

Post # 4
1211 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2014

I don’t think it’s cheesy, but I would be really hurt if I were your Fiance…I’d want your words, not someone else’s. That’s just me, though! 

Post # 5
1600 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2013

I think it’s cute and will be meaningful if you pick songs/words that the two of you recognize and relate to you and your relationship.

It’s not a cop-out at all. Sometimes songs express things better than we can, especially if you’re not certain how to put those feelings into your own words.

Trust me, I’m a writer and sometimes I have to rely on songs to express myself!  

Post # 6
9552 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: August 2013

Hm, I think you just have to be careful that they’re heartfelt, not corny, but if done correctly it could be nice. I would also make it so that the majority of the vows are your words with just a few quotes sprinkled throughout. But I think it could be really cute.

Post # 7
2009 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: November 1999

I think it’s okay to use them woven with your own words but not just stringing lyrics  together.

Its your wedding day, surely you have some thoughts you want to share with your partner!!!!

Post # 8
6745 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: June 2014

i say you write them out – or maybe start with a paragraph – and see where it taeks you and post it on here for us to judge! i think it could be super cute if you incorporate it into your own vows, esp if you end on your own words.. so lets try it out!

Post # 10
24 posts
  • Wedding: September 2012

Do you have a song? Perhaps you could pull lines from the song and use the lyrics interspersed with your own words to tell him how you feel?


PS – I am doing similar and it is tough – I can relate! Our song is Forever and Ever, Amen, but Randy Travis.

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