cutting costs for guests at DWs

posted 2 years ago in Destination Weddings
Post # 2
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Bumble bee

We are doing a dw at an all-inclusive in Cuba, so we set up a group rate that expired after 90 days with a travel agent. Our guests got in for $970 a person for a week instead of $1200+ that the prices are usually to that resort for that week/month. It kinda sucked asking people to put a $200 deposit down so early (a year in advance) but it helped out with cost for them so quite a few people took advantage of it. 

A three hour drive from the airport is quite lengthy. Whereabouts are you from? Will most of your guests from both sides have to travel no matter where you host it?

 

Post # 3
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: January 2015

Is there a way for you and your FI to rent a large bus or shuttle to transport your gusts to/from the airport and resort? That is asking quite a lot of your guests.  Flying in, sure no problem, but driving that far also? :-/ 

Post # 4
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: March 1996

happyuphere:  If you really think people won’t attend because of the travel, you have to seriously contemplate which is more important to you – having your wedding at this location, or having your wedding well-attended by the people you invite.

Post # 5
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: September 2014

MrsTywinLannister:  +1 – this! Look into renting a shuttle bus. People will appreciate it!

Post # 6
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: October 2014

If you’ve not put down a deposit/signed a contract yet, you may want to seriously re-think your venue if you want a lot of folks to come out and you don’t want to be a major imposition to them.  I would imagine that there’s not a whole lot of things to do besides that resort in such a remote location; I’m guessing in Northern California there are probably some wineries, and some gorgeous scenery, but it sounds like it’s not really a good place to be a tourist looking for something to do. Even if you could work out the transportation for your guests (which would be a logistical nightmare unless they are all taking the same flights) and spare them that expense, for many people, the remote location with no dining/entertainment/tourism choices would be a huge put-off.

Post # 7
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Helper bee

MrsTywinLannister:  +1

happyuphere:  I’m not officially engaged by my guy and I are planning a DW for August of 2015. With airfare and hotel and a weekend of activities, we’ve decided to rent a bus for the whole weekend to defray cost if only by a little bit. DWs alone are a big ask, and we wanted as many ppl as possible to come because a DW isnt worth it for us if we cant celebrate with the ones we love. I get the OUR day and WE want this, this, and this but think about your guest who will be travelling to celebrate your day with you. If you arent the least bit accomodating, whether it be with location, food, or transporation, you may be setting yourself up for a bit of disappointment when it comes to RSVPs.

Post # 8
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Worker bee

I just finished my DW and we were 2hrs from destination sight. we were going to rent a big van but everyone wanted their own transportation to drive where they wanted too. Just remember, its your wedding. They will have to pay for the rental car, the airfare, the hotel. I would get the best type of room rate you can and maybe one category below for those that think it’s too pricey but close to the hotel. Whats your cut off date and attrition of the food and beverage minimum?

Post # 9
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: October 2014

I don’t know your family and friends, but that sounds like a lot to ask of your guests.  I don’t know if I would do it personally.

What is more important to you, having a larger group of your family and friends attend your wedding or having it at this location?  What about a wedding that does not require so much travel and financial commitment from guests and having the honeymoon at this resort?

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