(Closed) Dad – not involved, does he wear a tux?

posted 7 years ago in Family
Post # 3
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: July 2011

I think it’s okay for him to wear a tux even if he’s not walking you down the aisle.

I also think that you’re going to end up having this conversation whether you like it or not.  At some point it will come up about who is going to walk you down the aisle.  And it’s probably better to do it now when you’re still several months away from your wedding, rather than a month or so ahead of time when stressers are even higher.

Maybe if you tell him that you still want to do the father/daughter dance with him, but because of your close relationship with Stepdad he will be walking you down, he will understand.  I know it’s hard because you don’t want to hurt feelings, but one way or the other he’s going to notice when the day arrives that he isn’t the guy doing it.  So best to get the drama, hurt feelings out of the way now.

Post # 5
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: July 2011

Good luck with it!

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