- 7 years ago
- Wedding: August 2011
So I posted a while ago about my dad trying to tell me to change the date of my weddiing and calling me selfish because I wouldn’t do it. Now I call him to tell him the guest list is more than we thought. We are living pay check to paycheck and getting things little by little so budgeting is going to be kind of hard but we aren’t doing anything big. The church costs zero, the reception site costs zero and all we need is to decorate the reception and we are having a desert reception because it will be late afternoon/early evening. Anyway my dad said we are going overboard and do we even have money to do this and I said we would. (He bought my dress and said that was all he would do for me). Then he hung up on me. So my question is should I take that as my last straw and tell him not to come to my wedding because he is not welcome. I know he bought my dress but honestly I don’t see how that gives him the right to treat me like this. My FI and mom say I am totally in the right telling him to stay out of the wedding and my life. What do I do… I don’t want people around me who are not going to support me and my choices….