Post # 1
We are going to do our first dance. He is going to dance with his mom. But I am not close to my dad, and I am not sure if I want to do a dance. Actually, I’d rather dance with my step dad, but I don’t want to hurt any feelings. Is it weird to have mom son dance but not daughter father dance? Would it be obvious we didn’t do a father dance? Would you as a guest thing something is wrong?
Post # 2
- Wedding: August 2013 - Wynn Las Vegas
If your dad/step dad will be there, I think it could be strange. I would nix the parent dances.
Post # 3
whoa_its_ash: I would love to just nix all of them. But his mom has been looking to the dance all his life. He is a momas boy, but in a good way. This puts me in a spot. 🙁 Do you think its ok to do moms dance and leave out dad dances?
Post # 4
Could you split the dance between the two dads? Or maybe it would be less awkward if you did a dance with your Dad at the same time fiance is dancing with his Mom?
Post # 5
It’s your wedding! If they really want their dance and you dont want yours then let them have theirs and dont do yours! Who cares what anyone else thinks.
Post # 6
It’s your wedding so do what YOU want. My husband and MIL didn’t want to dance but I still had my dance with my father.