- 6 years ago
- Wedding: June 2012
So we are on our vacation, and we came here because this is the resort we want to get married at. We are in FL and it is perfect for our wedding. Yesterday after meeting with the coordinator, FI said that he wants to wait till we get home to pick our date. I am really upset, and although I won’t let it ruin our vacation, I came down here with the expectation that we would FINALLY KNOW when we are getting married. I think it is dumb because we are already here and won’t be traveling down again before our wedding….so why not get as much done here now as possible?!
I am starting to get into a total panic because we have been engaged 6 months with no date at all. We can’t even agree on a time of year! I am so afraid, almost petrified, that we are going to wait so long that ALL 2012 dates will be picked (they only book a year out). He has no idea how pissed I am at him right now….I can’t stand his ambivalence towards EVERYTHING.
I came down to the resort computer lab just to type this beacuse I needed out of the room. I am not letting it ruin our vacation, but last night I had a complete wedding night mare and woke up in a sweat. Which is why I am up so early. Why the heck is it taking us 6 months to nail down a date?!?!?!?!? And why am I putting myself through this? I just want it to be the day after our wedding. I can’t stand men sometimes and their completely backward way of thinking. Thanks, Bees. I’m just…heated right now. I thought when we got off the plane I would know when we are getting married and then I can start doing some planning beyond looking at save the dates, which at this point I will never get to send!! AGHHHHH.
Maybe today a crab will bite him as we are swimming and jolt him into action.