(Closed) Date Nights – who plans them?

posted 7 years ago in Relationships
  • poll: Who plans your date nights
    Mostly Me : (12 votes)
    55 %
    Mostly SO : (0 votes)
    Mostly together : (9 votes)
    41 %
    Other : (1 votes)
    5 %
  • Post # 3
    13099 posts
    Honey Beekeeper
    • Wedding: July 2010

    We are both “planners” so we typically plan things together because we both like being involved in that aspect of things.

    Post # 4
    3148 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: August 2012

    @oracle: I think you are my twin that just wrote this post.

    Same deal here!

    Post # 5
    4150 posts
    Honey bee
    • Wedding: October 2011

    Fiance usually plans vacations, oh, who am I kidding, he ALWAYS plans vacations.  Date nights are not planned very often because we live together and don’t have kids, so we are together often anyway.

    Post # 6
    2714 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: May 2012

    @oracle: Haha, I have no words of wisdom for you because what you just said… That is my life. I feel the same exact way you do. I make the plans and then I get annoyed that I’m the only one making plans. And yes, I’ve told him I feel this way and no, it doesn’t make any sense.

    Post # 7
    2392 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: September 2011

    Nobody plans them.  Our date nights consist of sitting on the couch with a bottle of wine and our DVR.  Which is exceptionally lame, but we can never decide on anything else to do.  When we lived in NY, we would go out a lot more and we planned it together.  I think now we’re kind of in denial of the fact that we have to drive places, so we don’t go.  (sadly, we left NY 3 years ago this month… apparently we are in a lot of denial)

    We plan our vacations together.  I tend to handle the logistical stuff and he handles the social stuff.  Almost all of our vacations are visiting family or going to weddings, so there’a  lot of social stuff to plan, but I do all the transit.

    Post # 8
    375 posts
    Helper bee

    Date nights are up to whoever’s week it is–we trade off grocery shopping/menu planning/dinner prep by weeks, so each Friday it’s up to that person.

    Vacations and activities, I usually think of something and suggest it because I tend to be on the lookout for stuff to do, but if we decide to take turns on something he’s usually good about coming up with a plan 🙂

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