December POAS Part 2: All I want for (insert holiday you celebrate) is a BFP! ;)

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Busy bee

I was thinking now that I am within the three day window of O we should maybe BD until I O, and then one after.

I hope his swimmers are ready…or maybe I should continue EOD, any advice? I ahte it when it comes to this…I can never decide. We have no known issues with sperm. Anyone know what TCOYF recommends?

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Busy bee

so the mailman comes to my job with our mail this morning, lo and behold a BabyTalk magazine addressed to me…cept i never subscribed to that and even if i had i’d NEVER have it sent to my job! a couple coworkers saw it and were teasing ”ohhhh is there something you wanna tell us?” all i could say is “i didnt subscribe to it, honest! lol”

so much for it being a surprise when I am actually pregnant and not trying lol

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Busy bee

@cowgirlace:  Thanks for starting Part 2! I love that it’s not even Dec yet and we are on part 2.

So remember I was saying that DH was starting to lose steam with the EOD BD-sessions?? Yesterday I got a positive OPK and was excited but also a little worried because I was thinking DH was in need of a BD break and now I was gonna have to force him into it for the next 3 nights in a row. Anyway, I told him I was O’ing and he was actually excited! We had the best sex we’ve had all cycle! Huge relief!

So my question to you ladies is: when should we BD again? We did Tues night (night before + OPK), last night (night of +OPK). We’ll def do it again tonight but DH has a hockey game so it won’t be until at least midnight that we actually do the deed. Should we squeeze in a quickie after work too? I’m worried we’re gonna miss that egg if we wait a full 24 hours between BD’ing. Am I being crazy? Is the pre-hockey BD overkill?

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Busy bee

Holy shitballs Batman! Part 2?!? Yikes! I go away for one day… 

So yeah,  just skimmed messages and all I absorbed was posive OPKs (yay ladies!!) and a fancy weiner pillow (SWEET! Where can I get on of those?!?!) 

AFM, hubby is on his two days off and my little man was sick (puking, yuck!) so no fun interwebs time wasting for me. I did, however, almost behead the hubster when I realized that he threw a (tampon) box of OPKs out with the trash yesterday. There were like 10 tests in it AND my October OPKs. I was like COME ON! I have to nag remind him to take all the trash out on a weekly basis for trash collection day and the one time he does it on his own he throws out vital stuff. Luckily I have another stash of OPKs and my HPTs in the closet. Hopefully I won’t need anymore OPKs after this month though. I’m very proud of us. We stayed on the SMEP to the tee, even though I passed out on poor DH on day 3 of everyday but was so proud that I woke up to sexy time weiner in my face telling me I can’t go to sleep yet LOL Hope all you ladies are dropping eggs and getting it done too! Big hugs and baby dust all around!!

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Honey bee

@cowgirlace:  thanks for starting the new thread!

 

@MrsHovzilla: Sorry about the trash confusion and the sick boy!  Hopefully you won’t need more OPKs.  Sounds like you guys had a bunch of successful BD-ing this cycle!

 

@MrsMoksha:  I think just doing it once today would be fine, especially since tons of people get KU just doing EOD, so over 24 hours in between shouldn’t be a problem.  But, if you guys have it in you and you want to, then more power to more BD-ing!

 

@CircleFace:  Yikes, that sucks!  That would really annoy me if some magazine that I didn’t even sign up for outed me at work!  Before we were engaged, DH received a NY Weddings magazine addressed to him.  He was like, “Ummm…wtf?”  Meanwhile, I’m sure some website of some sort that he was looking at when he was ring shopping got his address and signed him up.  It actually went to his parents’ house and it’s got pictures of all these brides on the front – his mom was like, “Is there something you want to tell me?”

 

@MrsJuneBee:  Everything I’ve read says that if you don’t have any reason to believe there’s any problem with his swimmers, then try to do it every day of the FW (or once you get a + opk).  My DH has issues when we do it every day (and sometimes even EOD for that matter), so that doesn’t work for us.

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Busy bee

@MrsHovzilla:  Oh man, sorry about your OPKs getting thrown out.  That sounds like something my DH would do.  Also, weiner is the word of the month!  Weiner FTW! 

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Busy bee

@hardtoconcentrate:  OK, that’s mostly what I have seen too! Time for us to get busy…we haven’t had issues yet and I’m hoping we don’t but there are a lot of good ideas I have seen around here if it does happen!

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Busy bee

@cowgirlace:  Errr. Happy for her (or maybe not if she wasn’t ready? :/ ) but sorry that you got that news. I feel like everyone around me is preggers all of a sudden. One with twins!

btw, not part of December yet, but just peeking in!

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